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break it down into broad categories? and market separately?

/grief – rights

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-/aphorisms or plutarch’s lives, etc could I get on software and then edit the way I want.  cd rom.  800 nos

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stolper,  woodruff?, daniel shore, harrison salsbury, david broder, chas mcdonald,

/perforations?     endorsers    :  

/Astronaut  Ed Aldrin     It took the acceptance of myself as an alcoholic to make me see that faith, hope, and love for people are better than individual achievement.

/those in leningrad doing something did better than those hovering under the blankets to save energy.

/my old site got lost but it fits in with blog.   Insert.

/you need to be around normals  – singles?

/after being in several fields, I see how easy it is to take oneself too seriously.

/could put a pot of gold under the nose of l000 people and many wouldn’t know what to do with it.

recognized vs real elites – deserving.

/be proud NOT to drive a fancy car.

/l0% is what you teach, write, hear?, retain?, get across? ….etc.

-/you know where sympathy comes in the dictionary?   between shit and syphilis.   which means what?  don’t expect much of it?

/don’t let the enemy set the agenda

/ l  health, 2 income, 3  fam.  as can’t enjoy 3 w/o lst 2

/what kind of people flock to those who totally dominate them:

tom peters, clergy, self-help shows, those who yell

/don’t forget who you are. the older you get, the less intimidated.

/messy place = messy mind? and antiseptic = antiseptic

/to some their mess is temp, but you can tell it’s long term

/make life a sport, not a profession.

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/don’t let a hobby become your life

/lot of mid age people want to regress. figure they missed something    & their weight is a clear example.

/influences: age, fam, class, neigh, sch, crowd, church?, ed, myths

/mirror like reactions when involved w/ someone – see yourself

/you help how, odette, domingo and find out they don’t help selves.

/people are interested in what makes the abnormal tick: serial killers,

/people tend to make religion what they want it to be.

/worst med. patients – find that article

/you are not alone

/happy people: no tv, busy, constructive,

/cleanliness is the lst rule of org.

/guys with religion did better in war?, pow? or what

/jerry lewis told flip, you’re doing great, but not having fun cause you don’t make mistakes.  [r skelton, d martin would agree]

travel, food, hobbies?, outings?  i can skip em

/all is ok [all happened before]

/underneath even the lightest person is some sense of tragedy: meti and abort.

/ml king’d let coms hassle it out, then go down middle.  

/1 800 542 0034  for a paralegal

/people better off than they think? not such losers, just in wrong groove

/lot of inspiration is private – ballet, sunset, drives, walks, see sen?

/good ad from those whose heads are on right – lynn wright

/h. ford said he who keep learning keeps young

/bks which have helped: fosdick, gandhi, fried, hh, sow,

/what books for eng, hist, geo, math, writing, lit, gov,

/jeff:  at divorce, keep the kids in the same area.  clause saying kids can’t be moved out of the sch dist w/o permission of both.  also work it out so housing sit is stable so kids are close to both folks. perryman would fly up, rent car, check into motel for 2 nights w/ kids.

/fat people:  I’ve met so many at hm and all that are full of cute excuses. if they were going to, they would have done it. too in love with restaurants. trim people have better attitudes

/700 club twists and wrecks hist

/when a relationship is not going well, the sexual part is given too much importance.  when the relationship is going well, it isn’t.   ????

/don’t shop the day after thanksgiving; it’s the busiest.

/humility with age

/boredom brings fatigue

/sig to know when to get out of a relationship, job, or whatever.

/spend whole life thinking you need to restrain yourself till you meet the right person

/the naturalness of it all – pat streetz

/what uib teaches:  it’s not the end.  often hard retraining for entirely new careers. skills over degrees.  nothing is forever.  richer for the struggle.  lot is in the mind

/work and frugal = ex and diet = penny save is penny earned

/love comes last in lot of marriages or pairing  ?

/aphorisms

/you grieve forever – so to speak.

/when you work for someone, act as if their prop is yours, their loss is yours. if in store, act as if it’s your store. neat, tidy.  if your boss doesn’t treat you right, prep and quit, never treat him wrong.

get up for any women entering rm.

/don’t spend all your time blaming others.

/keep your own council  – my  ny  apt

/a mary lu back east said it’s great when you don’t have to analize it

/rr:  when my neigh loses his job, it’s a recession.  when I do, it’s a depression.

/life can be as bad as it is good

/nothing’s l00%.  Nothing lasts forever.

/be realistic – milan could always beat me in chess – good for war.

/guys seemed playful when chasing bird, but was their way of dealing with the uncomfortableness of it.  they were concerned. same with singleton

& with guy joking bout viet kid in tears at  tg&y

/most boozers on rd fri 5-8  vs  sat night midnight to three.

/see mature

/you have to accept yourself – your bod, mind, etc

/some of life’s lessons don’t seem sig at the time. need ex

/you learn from success and failure.

/life is change, adaptation ….

/the grass is always greener …. browner

/you can’t love or hate something about someone unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.   ????????

/what is non pro cs, how to select a pro, pols, media, experts, self-ed types] on:

/some good from terrible times.  

/life is stumbling along over things good and bad people could have told you about, learning these things, trying to tell others, and getting a feeble response.

/romance is desert.

/Don’t miss opportunities that few get.

/its the struggle that counts.  success

/You have a responsiblity to yourself, to others and to things bigger than any of us  [like ….

/Remembering ideals will bring humility, peace, and a clearer path.

/sometimes you wonder if you are crazy or everyone else, and … it’s everyone else.

/kolping: beginning of the end is when they withdraw into themselves.  [look, there goes one]

/do what pleases you.  n. coward told d lean.  follow your loves

/need list of public figures & stars who abused alc, drugs

/the diaries help me be realistic about my limitations.

/we all have so much to give, we can’t give it away fast enough.

-take your kids stuff and save it;     they don’t know the val of it.

-/love and work grow out of each other  – irving stone.

/part of luck is when prep meets oppor.  having a lot of the right irons in the fire, acting in good faith, and being caught up so that when something breaks, you can seize the opportunity.

/you’re conditioned by various eras, media.

/when a minority person doesn’t get ahead, libs are sure it’s discrim.  but we all have lot of setbacks which are unexplainable.  if we were a min, we could easily assume it was discrim.  libs train min to have this knee jerk reaction.

/nothing like a kid to make you believe.

/all the stuff on  investing.  retirment.

/which ga items would be priority?

irish,

/if you can’t take your date to meet your folks, you’re wasting your time.

reasons kids get pregmant.

permission.   

/”plant” ideas in others so they can come up with their version.  cd

the majors.  

/the work’s been done  

/Michael cane’s advice on acting.   

/toll no or address for self-help grps.  overspenders anony.

sec on motivation?

/one in junkyard: if it wasn’t for customers, you wouldn’t have a job.  customer is always right.

      for the layman.  cults, gays.   

/any subject can be reduced to x number of pts.  why not do this and make it easy for readers.  

me     

/i’m mostly interested in the IDEA of this bk.  so farm it all out.  

/need an org as, if this goes, someone will have to stay with it.

/need endorsements.  

/scope, sensibility, usefull, practical, would appeal to self-help grps..

/people at junctures.  might be one of best how to books

/its format? fits the am tradition of self-reliance, innovation, pragmatism.  many pundits would probably want their comments in a sequel.

/to succeed? or create, you have to be able to handle ridicule & being censored by collegues & others.   don’t be afraid of failure.  the most satisfaction comes from pursuing the goal, not  attaining it.  success, happiness?

/activity and energy create each other.

/5 enemies of peace: greed, excessive ambition, envy, anger, pride.

/anger can come from what others have expected from you.

wrong kind of pride from need to impress self and others with what you lack.  thus know limits. be humble, tolerate diffs.

/be around the young.  happiness comes from living right, [decent, etc]

reunion handbook – address          show how this bk is the same and diff    skip.   

resp for: crime, mh, drug, alc, radical?

/michael caine’s rules for actors:  don’t ask if you’re working

/glossary.

/smoking.  myths. no orig research – just find what’s done.  

/ those who can do, those who can’t, teach.  those who can’t teach, teach gym.   4 way roat test.  you have to live with yourself.  helpful, calming.  self-help made simple.  the people’s alamanac.  

/nyc youth bd prediction  – fire ….    can’t find.  Look for delinquency prediction  

/mario puzos ad to writers.  lessons learned from w-gate, vw, civil rights.  

gear toward females, fams, ?  

colleg outline series – also those plastic summaries?  some bk by murro? of best lessons from pub figures in 600 words.

/your pro success parallels your personal success.

ike’s advice.  actuarial tables.  

/skip   fads: t.m., biorythms, up with people, moral rearmament

tuff love.  demographics?  the l7 bk of manners.  

/don’t count the days, make the days count.  time is not to pass, but to fill.  [vs class].  make and play for the breaks.

children, transporting.   halloween safety.  choosing a babysitter

family – harmful elements

gambling.  by group.  signs of.  are you a compulsive gambler

lst aid bk in car and hm

/is fullfillment better than happiness or success?

 in the future – rounding out some categories and adding others.  Some prominent advice givers would probably want to have the main points of their articles included.

It seems a revision would be a natural.

How many years did we spend learning what could have been easily told us.  

/religion is bad when it prevent growth or not cs

/romance [like parenthood] shows you two to be bigger than selves.

/everyone should exp a kid’s love

/to underestimate or dismiss the past is the biggest mistake

 can’t know self w/o resp.  dj

/when you fail, you might as well count on suffering alone.

/have to take care of self: health, $, rel, wk, hobbies, time! pas, ibm

/no one walks on water       

shows same advice applies to little guy as to the rich and famous

/the art of the deal – and to every group –  businesses, counselors, charities, schools, churches, athletic groups, etc.

/lord acton   ga

/wycliff translators

/add  skip bit on explainations.

/explain more bout how your heart is, marriage, happiness, etc

/check lst the bk of inside info via library? as looks the same [via bottom line]

/having a good time makes everything else so much lighter, said ma.

/some who complain about chicken moves of others, pull em themsleves [me too?] bob clegg

/even tho you can rack up lot on the pos side [welfare] if people don’t like something, they won’t give you any credit.  no integrity.

explain handouts

/individual pieces of THEIRS have done well.  and mine   ???

/should be fun to put together. – only do that way.

this project is just too big, and too big for my style.

/use the force of your opponent

/the truth is rarely pure and never simple – oscar wilde

/thoreau: most men lead lives of quiet desperation.

/can’t hold a good man down

/only person you have to satisfy is yourself.

/easy to have a baby; hard to raise a child

/cannon green got duller and duller when trying to change his style.

/peale’s wife handled the biz.

/when you and someone care for each other, it’s like looking in the mirror.

/too much food is like loud music – it burdens the visitor.

/magic at ballet  – peale said you periodically need moments of inspiration. such was the lst kaleidescope

/see psych

/easy to buy, hard to sell

/you spoil people [dj and domingo] and they contempt you.

/you always fantacize from a distance

/less fun brings more reminicsing.    Bull?

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/middle age is trying to keep up with a 2l yr old laying shingles on my roof.  

/middle age is friends not admitting they’re out of shape. and its screwy theories on how its the same as being young.

/lot of middle age people trying to fool themselves.

/ l/2 of all adults spend new years wtching tv.  l/4 go to parties.

/whole thing in life is finding out who oneself is.

/things are never the way you remember them.

/too much food is like loud music – it burdens the visitor.

/galbraith said to gorby advisors don’t practice what they preach.

/gorby said those who know all are suspect.  the most confident don’t know anything.

/some adults remember xmas as a kid was magic and expect it to be the same?

/don’t call before 9 am on wknds.  or after 9 wknights.

/a lot of people will take you if they think they can get away with it.====================

/most people live lives of quiet desperation because:   spoiled, fantacize, miss small things, unreal, immature, mislead by mil and sch, and rel, playboy,

/everyone acts in their own interest.

/forgive = don’t hold grudge, don’t judge?, accept that person won’t be changing.   i say forgive is the wrong word.

judging is? figuring em out and condeming em in process

/we’ll never know true story on pearl harbor, jfk, ml king, m. monroe.

/busier out of work than in

/for you to check refrig: turn off all and [time the disk with refrig -running -not much faster than:

-turn off during vacation

/quiet desparation in those that fall for pyramid games, r.e. seminar scams, late night informercials? or tony robbins crap,  schuller.

/how sober they can be when intoxicated

/xmas – put away goodies all yr for it.  it’s an ext of what you have [or don’t]

/some people become too familiar – seems like you start to get along with em and the flood gates open.

/bk of one liners   ?

/what does [middle] age [52] teach you

/mixing biz and soc:  don’t get your honey where you get your $.

/life is real, earnest, short.  – silber

/security tips

/you’re going to have trouble – and you can nurse it the rest of your life

`/dictionary of am proverbs.  wolfgag meider, oxford univ press.

/natural for others to think if you fail a lot something’s wrong with you.

/mutual hobby is real good for a marriage.  4h.

/follow feelings as your mind plays tricks on you.

/singles dream for themselves [fading dreams];  parents dream for their kids

/going over old letters.  possible lessons:

/whole secret of life is what you do with yourself – satisfaction, integrity, work, course, hobbies, relationships, etc.  there is fast and slow change and you have to use your head and improve it too.

/follow your loves – hobbies, clubs, etc and the rest will follow.

/lot put on a big act just to keep their jobs

/humor for bad times

/all’s fair in love and war

/singles dream for selves; parents dream for their kids.

/girls at the uso you sort of had to feel sorry for./people are such a pain, the only way to handle em is in grps.

/ma: all the smooth, gentlemanly, polite, harmeless, concerned cons trying to get all the money in abortion referrals.  they’d take the gold right out of your teeth.  thank god for lawyers.   re pp.

/never got the smell out of things taken to cheap cleaners.

/do what you lov. dream big. play to strengths, see self as self-employed, clear goals, get around right people, open to ideas and info, resilience, cr, continuous personal development, speed, dependable, honest, single- minded, decisive,

/nixon, pine ridge, nj.    send lists +.  walks 2 mi am & pm. 79 in 92.  said happiness is not fun but satisfaction.  gets some of his best ideas when walking as did many leaders.

`/how much I owe marble – so send ga

/people appear more heroic in past than the present.

/ann landers can blow it.  dr. j. brother too.

/don’t get so serious you lose the fun aspect of life and work.

/avoid the busiest day. it’s the day after thanksgiving.

/s.j. rafael had ruff life and learned 0 – meaning somethings just don’t have answers.   camera.

`/the unloved devour others

/people do not get what they deserve re things they have no control over – freak accidents,    

but in other areas, they get what they deserve: alc, drugs, gamble, mh?, but espec. soc life.

/ga – a simpleton’s guide to life,  the future,  present

/have to live thru to believe:  all’s fair in love and war.  divorce. & 000 bout it in sch.

/middle age too often worships youth.

/mid age:  find out faults of folks, self, kids.

/woodsen: 92   

it’s not the $ you bring home; it’s your attitude bout life.  

/friendship is sig for partnering.  some fall in love with someone who’s not their friend.- thus lifestyle

/a kid takes the present out of the box and plays with the box.

/tie in betty davis and thoreau.

/make your friends before you need em as personal contacts are it in biz and pol.  defies logic.

/wally hickel.  says 2 groups tell you the truth: the young as uninhibited and old as they don’t care.  sig

/now in mid age, what does someone l5 yrs younger know that I don’t know in religion, psych, media, sw,    develop:  landers, joyce brothers, etc.

/you’ll never know why some reject you and visa versa

/couples usually spend 25% more than planned. $l6k for average wedding.  

/3 big lies?    check is in the mail.  I’ll respect you in the morning?  I’m from the government and I’m here to help you.

/michael jordan said when you’re young, you try to be perfect, but realize as you get older, you can’t be.  and not be afraid to let people know you make mistakes.

/lesson of hist is that each generation is debunked by the next.

/would I use such a bk.  as i didn’t use the one on writing.

/singles dream for themselves [fading dreams];  parents dream for their kids

/oscar wilde said part of some people’s success is succeeding, then making sure their friends fail.  [this was in the flic  All About Eve.]

/guy who’s no longer a catholic – due to cover up of molestation  and some guy on 60 min who will never trust anyone again.

/all good work is done in defiance of management.  said bob woodward.

/shape up or ship out

/finally you meet someone you can joke with, someone else you can talk to about a certain hobby,  another for politics, another for cultural events or entertainment?

/divorce can be a rebirth.

but rarely has advice been boiled down to liststhe main points.  The book would do this in the form of lists.  This would bring the Such lists come to the point.  

/aphorisms so people could get to the heart of the matter. ; I’m not too enthusiatic about doing the work – explaining points.

/a man can only expect to be able to take care of his family – said passenger in cab.

/lot of rent to own – are BIG rip offs.  400%?  int.  tv

/nothing lasts forever – including the volkswagen beetle.

/some HAVE to live thru their kids – as have little going.  irv campbell.

/being grdprt is fascination with part of you.  can spoil em.  no hassle so can watch em grow and enjoy em more.  you appreciate em more.  they can do no wrong.  in awe of his – can study her for hrs.  better than being a parent.  one of the rewards of life.  irv campbell

/avoid the busiest day – the day after thanksgiving.

/should include list of items rated and sources  sig  

/i’m more interested in assembling it than anything else.

/need a layman’s guide to media, pros, charity,

/happiness is taking things apart.

/ga is like all you ever needed to know, i learned in kindergarden

/oscar wilde: kids idolize folks, later understand them, and rarely forgive them.

/imitation is the highest form of flattery. 4 rules of leadership:  never get personal, do your hmwk, use power to persuade rather than intimidate, but considerate of the needs of colleqgues.

/no matter who you are, at various times your emotions well up from inside and come out

/be nice to others and they’ll be nice back –  be nice but be shwred, practical, cautious, and read between the lines.

/when you spend too much time alone, you think too much.

/amazing what drove lbj, nix, garland, onasis, the kennedies.  pathetic.  shows you what you didn’t miss.

`/guidelines for deprograming   cults, faith healing, lourdes, leaders

/people with plain spouses that have done wonders for em.

/black smoke is bad for the lungs.

/let the buyer beware

/grief one is in sig file and wasn’t that sig?

/abe lincoln said most people are about as happy as they want to be –

/what books DO people use?  cr, bible?, dr. spoke, landers?,

/there must be wkbks for recovering alcs and drug

/a man’s character is his fate.

/bob alex strongly believes in living together before marriage.

/go to reunions

/ga  learn what you can do and what not.

/anyone who never had a chance, never took a chance.

/you have to keep changing with the times.

/put pros and cons on paper.  

/horace greely said the only lasting thing is character.

/best of rd or something.  where is it.  a collectors item.  find it

/fam ther  dr leo …. in c.m.

/sign of a healthy rel is change, growth,

/religion can KEEP a person from maturing.  it did me.

/entertainment is enjoyable; but the fine arts are uplifting, inspiring, enriching.

/to relax on vacation, go to where there is nothing to do.

/sunnyvale

/believe 90% of what you see and l0% of what you hear.

/from drug freak to jesus freak.

/in -half the refrig repairmen ripped off sting op with videocams.  sig  93 tv.  that confirms all i’ve said: info, misinfo, incompetence. all are selling. have to do everthing yourself.  car, mower, all.  outward appearances were a tip off.  stay with repairman.  ask for old part.  

/when some things hang fire – like stated val car insur, it’s telling you something.

/if you treat people too well, they hold you in contempt – d, dj, mm, moks

  sales are a tip off that better ones coming

/rush:  big break when he got to be himself.

/if you’re not being criticized, you’re not doing anything.

/follow your loves

/santana.  talent is a gift.  use it as such.  it’s not for ego.  sig.

/never compare, never compete.  said oscar de la renta.  never explain,? never apologize? – disraili.

/all in life is petty, except for the people you love.

/make your difficulties work for you.

/bradshaw:  you have to go thru grief to get better.  have to reach out.  and people surprise you with their int and support

/to appreciate kids is to appreciate life and visa versa.

/all’s fair in love and war.  bit the hand that fed him

/all is pol.  everyone does biz with everyone, and everyone can and will sell out anyone else.

/kids in 2 parent hms have higher iq scores.  p. 82

/”I am right” button

/the past:  more things change, the more they stay the same.

/self-help grps   limited to peers.  some get too zealous.  aa says go to 90 meetings in 90 days to break with past.  

notices in paper and supermarket bull bds. the  Self-help Sourcebook.  aa and manic-dep can be the est of singles scene.  members can’t get controlling.    l)  addictive beh   2)  phy and ment illness  3)  transition or crisis  [widows, etc]   4)  rels of clients.

lot are anti pro.     nwswk  2/5/90

/see pyramids

/you can’t expect much from people.

/you don’t know till it happens to you: lc, oc, fam, c, ny,

/past: you can’t appreciate it till it’s gone.

/hum nature to want to lift bottom and to envy and criticize the top.

/loneliness is not sharing.  ann rand

/marriage works between:  a flower and a gardner, or two gardners, but not two flowers.   [if she be the flower, I be the dirt]

/greatest thing you will ever learn – is to love and be loved in return.

/are there any bks or articles that prep anyone for reality in slums, sw, life, pc, job, marriage.  that’s why my ga bk would be facts.

/talk and read between the lines  [like male prostitution stings in la]

/saints may be good in heaven, but they’re hell on earth.

/the fallen: honig, moomaw, ted kennedy, lbj?, santa fe archbishop, rabbis in sd., rains in tex

/learn from mistakes, but don’t dwell on them.

/lot of materal for ga from talk shows

/if you want a friend in wash d.c., buy a dog.

/pub insts: congress, org religion, sup crt, ed, big biz, org labor.  conf in all declined last 25 yrs.  93  la.

/life’s little instruction bk.   ga

/real life is in the dishes.  ema bombeck?

`/loneliness is being unable to share.

try out stuff on tenants

/being a minority member.  be proud said c powell.  don’t let it become a problem.  let it be somebody else’s problem.

/talk and read between the lines  [like male prostitution stings in la]

/us loser humor.  see adp?

/ strong fams: l comm 2 commitment 3 appreciation 4 deal with and resolve crisies pos…

/this is mh   national self-help clearinghouse      

/cal self-help cent, 405 hilgard ave, la 90024   2l3 825 1799.

/you make yourself happy.  don’t wait for others to.

allocate those under  recs.  same with lists?

[i’d also like:   anti biz, gobbledygook  double-talk, j.   see pity, jive, slums, sw?  

ideal, youth, lists2, mature,

? ___   admh, sw?, p?, pri?, f? grieving, guilt, mh?, rights of rel?, ment, mature. m

lst put em all on lists2 ?    which didn’t have much

/i just figured it out:  a man wants to marry a lady, but sleep with a woman.  and sometimes you get both in the same person.

madona/whore?

/don’t try to be what you’re not;  be what you are.

/life is expensive; drive defensive.

/you see something like nureyev and expect the same and never find it. very true of youth.  some memories you’ll never replace.

/you need moments of inspiration periodically. dr. peale

/c outline series.

/no skeletons in the closet when you’re married.

anger       you have to resolve it or it will keep coming out – blowing up at drivers, slow or incompetent help, sarcasm, sadistic humor, excessive politeness, bad dreams, problems with sleep, apathy, depression, fatigue, headaches, stiff necks, ulcers, teeth grinding.  ridiculing, blaming, threatening are below the belt.  other mistakes: avoiding it, withholding affection or approval.  how to fight fair: when tempers flare, back off for a while.  define issue and stick it.  identify points of agreement and not.  allow each to talk and restate ea other’s arguments – for clarity.  define what’s out of bounds.  define what ea can do to help resolve it.  expect future arguments.  they are part of rel..  la    ===========

/those that offer no insight into you, don’t want any for themselves.   The shallows

/some of your friends have adorable characteristics and don’t know it.

/mensa gal who pubed bk. only stick with those guides, ratings that will remain.

`/what happened to nader’s pub citizen   thing.  was it a guide?

/life is so short, you have to be true to yourself and make wise choices.

 – from the little guy to the prominent.

/rating the diets = bk .

/how to lose weight

`/anger is from past hurt; resentment from present hurt; and anxiety comes from anticipating future hurt.

/lot of so-so’s make it; lot of talented don’t.

/some with more talent don’t make it; some with less do.

/some used cars have been totaled and fixed up.  60 min.

/lot of relationships are temporary, transitional.

– that landlording bk.

/sex to make up for emotional intimacy.

/if you love something, set it free; if it comes back, it is yours; it not, it was never meant to be.   [re kids?]

/success as a human being.

/for do it yourselfers

/don’t know how much you can love till you have a child.

/too much food is like loud music – it burdens the visitor.

/it’s how you relate to the person at the moment.

/guys like sensitive guy in plains hardware in gg.  or guy at kiawanas [for county union].  guys who missed their mark but carry on bravely, putting their best foot forward.  must by ty of gays, blacks, others.  working to pay the bills.  for everyone on bdway, l000 failed.  my heart goes out to em.  and my hate to those who won’t hold up their end.

/the more natural you are, the more you can enjoy people.

/if you want something done, give it to a busy person.

/great men take big chances.

/sat = worst day for wrecks.

/men who are hung up on women don’t have many buddies.

/ancient park ranger said people don’t want facts; they want a story, a song.

/when you succeed, don’t let it go to your head, when you fail, don’t let it get you down.

/love connection makes you wince.

/it’s how you relate to the person at the moment.

/memories are good for one’s perspective.  – lists of advice.  who would do this: meninger, landers, carnegie, peale,

/glad I spent so much time on figuring out new glasses.  as everything is plugging away, attrition.  i love it.

/people really let you down

/happiness is not in achieving the goal, but in the struggle.

/some are 90% nice and l0% shit.

/for some their pets or kids can do no wrong.

/you sure don’t want to get caught up in the justice system.

/took forever to finally read that too much sex is due to lack of emot..  intimacy.

/being hung up on sex is due to a lack of meaningful social life.

/let people cry in emerg.

/often lst thot or thing out of your mouth is the truth.

/people try to capture in 2nd marriage the thrill of the lst.  doesn’t always work.

/resolve the inner child so you can live your life.

/get all in writing.

/one of the worst words is exclusive  said robert frost, as it moves you away from humans.

/becomming more obvious how many are searching socially.

/mystery appeals:  billy the kid, greta garbo.

– Watch for “overidentification”.  You get to know their culture and

/only person who can count you out is yourself.  buddy epson.

/when you go out, dress UP.

/sex is a substitute for emotional intimacy.

/paul simon said he didn’t believe how much he could love and hurt was married to carrie fisher.

/emerg:  take deep breath, stay calm, take time to think up a plan.

/only amateurs get angry.  sig.

/amateurs get angry, overworked, burned out, unbal.

/typical of the media and the public: build up nancy kerrigan and then tear her down.  anything for news, vicarious or perverted pleasure.  you heard it here.

/one’s outlook toward sex sure is basic to one’s maturity.  i was an idealist when young.

/oscar wilde

/cr has more helpful bks.   94

/life is a mystery to be lived, not solved.

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middle age, myths, slums,  class

burnout, pregnancy, childlessness, estate planning?,

/prejudice?

fulfillment,

/glossaries

/ probate/ /medicine /law /800 nos 7/9l

Good advice is timeless; it supports traditional values and shows life is not complex nor mysterious.  the work’s been done.

/The book should lay open easily for reading and be slightly larger than  8 & l/2  by  ll  so that perforated pages can easily removed for copying, filing, and posting.  handy, practical, fun

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American characteristics      

/james reston said young love is marvelous, but old love is the jewel.

/health, enuff $ to get along, someone to share things with = dick clark’s priorities.  94

/max frankel said experiences expand you.  [hit it right on the button]. esl, travel, slums, etc.

/the tapes of meals put you right at home again.  press the play button and there you are./trading 90 min tapes is easier and more enjoyable than writing.- make em of the family dinner./ga  – top l00 books.

Religion

Keeping perspective       Al Garner

rate?

-most censored stories????    prisons, churches

untested forms: mi’s,  rating soc programs.

– Best schs for drama, music, biz, engineering, forestry, law, medicine, nursing, social work, veterinary medicine.

– Best diets.

/it would be a reference tool

/my main int is finding and boiling this stuff down.

/section on gays

/to thyself be true.

/yen do, manolo not trying to be something they’re not.

/your lst thot is often the truest:  

/people root for a flop as they want to see their friends fail.

/ga  is pointing the way     to      the answers.

/like poor richards almanac for many subjects

/some pretty standard – people just need reminders.

Professionals – Their fallibilities        Al Garner

/this book would GET TO THE POINT.  said most good ideas are simple.

/phil hartman got job in try outs when he no longer cared.  [wasn’t straining]

/yendo said newcomers [ims] would use it. in eng.

/you have to make things happen.  hugh macken.

/divorce can be good as some people learn they were too dependent, couldn’t stand on their own, had to grow.

/j martin’s 3rd wife was the girl he should have married in the   lst place.  

/indespensable?/encyl  of hm repair

see:  ratings in file cab., m

/you are not alone,  

/categories:  security, nanies, emerg, contractors, shopping, 2 sections:  timeless and contemp.  

800 nos.  this is so practical, it’s basic?, vital.  how much of it have I used.

/you go to career or other types of counseling to learn how NOT to see the world thru your own eyes [and get away from private logic]

/ga= workbk for stu, mil, biz?   

/ga – bk of landlording.  scams too – pyramids.

/your lst thot is often the truest

/good and bad ed, psych, rel? pol,

/stuff clipped off heart factor so they won’t know where it’s coming from.

 book of inside information   listed below only to go under gen:    toc: $ mng, investing, re, taxes, retirement, estate planning, biz mng, success, marriage & fam life, hm ownership, shopping, collecting, cars, travel, health, exercise, ed.  mostly $.   $30  which is 40% off. l688 items.  it’s not pop?  they dramatize. and must have a whole sales dept.  not that practical?  one on dryer vent was way off – bottom line.  other items don’t belong:  caviar.  tried to cover some of what cr does better.  same with health?  0 on best schs.

copyrights vs top stuff. and using their stuff – but I’d have to find a publisher. wrote for samples of bottom line. 7/94.   money smart.

my bargaining chips  toc, improvements below, boiling down acton, plutarch, etc, via cd rom.  other ref bks.

improvements  dated vs timeless.   main title and others.  a popularized version, a more useable, chrono – wkbk.  for diff aud, ages, ims?  color, pics?.  lists vs prose.  the law and you,  LLing.

 most practical would be to get my stuff in that bk.

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/it’s how you relate to the person at the moment.

/problem with permission

/truly great acting is knowing when to hold back. l olivier

/bk of i…  finding tenants part was 0.

/if you can’t talk to your kids bout sex [the right way], you’re missing a big part of comm.

/add that lonelies can find ready made fams.  find that list – conquering loneliness

/don’t give the impression you have money; then people say buy a new car, go on vacation, wine and dine [so you can be as indebt as they are].  same with food, time and other things: they don’t know how to handle em.

/rent to own is a legal con game.

/spoiled people never appreciate all the little things in life, since life in general owes them a living.  vs linda.

/when you succeed, don’t let it go to your head, when you fail, don’t let it get you down.  gracious when you win and lose.

/in a lot of dealings, you can’t get anyone’s attention until $ comes up.  

/how not to get your heart broken again and again.

/bottom line send heavy pitch for some Bk of Secrets.  dumb title.  too much promo.

/don’t waste the time of pros.  that coastline lawyer read only the lst page.

 if you don’t entertain, your house is not a home.   Same said about kids

/paul spencer and jenkins being dropped

/you can win by losing and lose by winning.

/suvivors of tragedy say enjoy the present.

/turn people into jerks.  if you met these two you wouldn’t expect it from them.  cheri and domingo, watergate,

/at thrift shop, ma sees plenty of unwanted gifts.

/haven’t we heard since birth it’s the end of the world and it’s the start of wonderful times.

/amazing what you can get used to with cheri.  time cures all.

/suvivors of tragedy say enjoy the present.

/when you’re down, there’s no substitute for walking.

/you never really know people – how, mingo,   but there are little clues.

/stereotyping is bad.  

/another big lesson: once you get money, don’t tell anyone.  it messes up relationships,  everyone want you to blow it and end up in bad shape like them.

/life is what happens to you while you’re making other plans.

/$ – oh, go buy a hse.

/have it set up in order of holidays?

/burgess …..   on rush said failure educated him.

-/demming, drucker

/you’ve won the debate when they go after you personally.

 make it and life a sport, not a profession.

/bk of inside info.  how to do everythnig right.  bottom line, 330 w 42nd nyc l0036.

/if people don’t believe in you, back off.

/dave quintana apologizes for nothing.  refreshing.

/careful on sales – tan pants at nordstroms

/don’t take out hostility [or anything] on those who can’t answer back – hired help, waitresses.

/soc life judges you fairly.

/you get what you settle for.   

/what the big print giveth, the small print taketh away.

/see bt

/religious people should  l) take a stand on sound reasonning, not religious doctrine.  2) stick to relevant issues.  3) don’t implicitly set up a religious test for pub office.  4) ed rather than ask for yes or no answers.  la 94

/gatoc sent to flamingo

/one’s attitude toward sex is central to their attitude toward life.  i was unnatural about it for yrs.  if you can’t talk about sex with your wife, then comm problem.  pat5

/buying used cars is very risky – all kinds of fraud from all.  20/20

/life is unfair

/don’t make a mystery of soc life.

/romance holds things together for a while, but if you don’t have that much in common as friends, it’ll fizzle.

/to the extent you deny someone’s humanity, you lose your own.

/childlike vs childish

/the reward of suffering is experience.

/in our sleep, pain which cannot forget, falls frop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom thru the awful grace of God.  Aeschylus

/sex urge is powerful and kidding [in a sensible way] about it is a healthy way of dealing with it.

/i should have had me and k gal get off freeway lst and THEN change tire.

/saw smoke? at car ahead.  pulled over called it in as smoke or steam.  drove by, it was steam.  luckily called it in again as they had dispatched fire truck.  they stopped it.

/you have to control your destiny – michael knight and baywatch.

/you create your own happiness.

/i think those without friends, haven’t learned to be human enuff.

/thru mil and didn’t find one person he wanted as a friend.

/ma said when it rains it pours, but you can get more done [and get others to]

/jo said when depressed, get out.

/you don’t know people till you’ve been thru something with them that involves $, controversy, emergency, or crisis.

/people love success, but resent successful people. jo clark.

/ma tells me what to write newt, dole, teddy, etc. and whisk – it’s done.  and if they don’t have time to read em, they COUNT em.

/the eyes are the windows to the soul.

/all this family and friend stuff teaches you NEVER to tell anyone your assets, etc.  they want you to spend it, they could become jealous, in my case, they could resent the fact I don’t have to have a regular job.  lot of people are nothing and frustrated.  they resent talent, $, the works.

/have to have fun in pro baseball or you’ll be eaten alive by the pressure.

/good ed, bad ed.  good psych, bad pysch

/sucker born every min

/don’t go too far out of your way for people – you’ll get burnt.

/never lose contact with the enemy.  – israelies.

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/anywhere you live, you’ll learn who’s who; but in your home town, you know who’s who and WHY.

/lot can’t recognize the future.  ibm

/those who want to be heros need villians.

/when down, work around hse.  it works.

/marcia clark said follow your gut instincts.

/if you get the dirty end of a stick, make a tool out of it.

/when you hit and miss with a good guy like d, you blame yourself, till he pulls a cheri.

/lot of carnival games are rigged.

/always have been interested in aphorisms.  slogans on wall – hi sch.

/someone said about tv: they never know what’s going to work:  edsels, vw beatles, mustangs.

/Don’t worry about being humble; you’re not that great,  said golda meir.

/walking stimulates your thinking.

/morality plays under psych

/rush said LOT resent success.

/ga bk to child guidance-parenting.  &  how to.  self-help.

/you meet people where you play: humor, cul, iq, mus, old hms, pol?

/get a set fee with lawyers.

/when walking and you signal a car to turn, be sure there is not a bike behind.

/ga  timeless advice, contemp advice.

/mcclelland told biden of all his loses and said only advice was to wk, wk, wk.

/loneliness is from self.  accepting yourself is part of sol.

/an addiction is what controls your life:  work, alc, etc.

/don’t fall in love with someone’s potential

/after age ____, don’t fall in love with someone’s potential

/cabbie said co says pick up all, but cares less when you get robbed.  

/you meet people where you play: humor, cul, rec, old hms, lectures.

/seems like you have to work hard to leave something behind.

/i need a secular guideposts.

/passages

/which commecial outfit would back ga – insur?  med?  sig

/if your buddies are C, don’t expect to keep an A girlfriend.

/live a life, not an apology.

/it’s nice to be famous as long as you remain unknown, said one french artist.

/ga  – tony robbins.

/live a life, not an apology.

/ga should be FINDING it lst.  then paraphrasing.  sig

/lot of sig belongs in ga  – after tons of work  

8 & l/2 by ll for easy copying.  

as guides for their children, employees, committees, etc.

Such a site would be highly practical and have broad appeal, covering  

/dj not sad with me re fam = not happy for me when success?

/nat charities info bur has guide for wise giving.     Also charity navigator

-/those shrink sites

/don’t trust anyone under 5′ 9″ = little man’s disease.  j quiggle is one?  

/supermarkets busy 3 days before holidays and the lst and l5th.

/advice simplified?

thurs is sales.

/ga could be sig for rel.. and phil

/toll calls from phone booths can run the bill WAY up.

/don’t sign anything without reading – fine print says they will change your phone serv.

/rebuilt mattresses can be pretty bad.  [i had some]  but new ones play ALL kinds of games.

/lot of carnivals are unreged and rigged.

/a healthy rel.. means giving ea other flac once in while [because it comes up.]

/i read: professional success parallels social success.  that let’s us out.

/true luv stands on its own

/don’t become obligated to people as then you have to listen to em – scott and jill.  and don’t do reverse: preach just because you have some temporary superiour position.

/lot have id wrapped up in fam.

/lot of biz or pro stuff comes up in unplanned moments while socializing.

/the miserable advice about the family i’ve gotten from dreamers shows how stunted their lives must be. – nothing like that to give you great insight.

/xmas is a bad time for many – hassle, excess, disagreements over $ so domestic disputes.  another dumb holiday.  

  you relate to the world the way you relate to yourself.  enjoy yourself more and you’ll enjoy life.

/relatives seemed to be ‘forced friends.’  who needs that?

/the lst step to wisdom is to call things by their right names.

/i hate to hear fat people rave over terrible food they shouldn’t even think about:  pizza, double bacon, avocado, cheezeburger, cheezecake, etc.  dumb to eat it, dummer to advertise it.

/really ticks me off the way EVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVeryone has to make EVVVVVVVVVVVVVVerything so darn complicated: blue cross, car insur…, homeowners insur, dental plans, computers, vcr’s, appliances, on and on

/only the defeated know the meaning of victory.

/it’s not so much as FINDING the right person as BEING the right person.   sounds like another: it’s not hunting for love, but loving.

/people look for magical drugs for their physical health the way they did in the m.h. field.

/never look down on those who look up to you.  ali

/gain possession:  rent control apt, b&c, rent rms, car. some kind of bargaining power

/stay orged.  then when good or bad new breaks, you can move fast.- espec sig for investing

/seems as if you’re crazy or everyone else.  and it’s the latter.

/dateline:  xmas is the most stressful time of yr.

/when you stop having fun; life’s over.  jo

/j gleason: need clout as ex can’t grasp your projects anyhow.

/you don’t impress people by being all things to all people, but by occasionally fighting and showing what you’re made of.  fix.

/falling and being in love lasted a few yrs for jane 44 in canada?  roller coaster.  the magic fades, the love lasts.  all go overboard.  don’t look, just let it happen.

/it’s not till it comes to who gets what that you know what people are like – which kid is favored, which worker, heir, friend, co-worker,

/be around kids and pets

/victim or master of circumstances.

/sometimes problems have 2 lessons: slim fast for its miracles and for showing you who cares less.  fam for fam and for dreamers.  reunion, puters, ga, job

/roscoe said it’s how you relate to the person at that moment

/howard hughes hired 2 sets of lawyers – one working for him and one against so he would be prepared for all opposition.

/funny how ga is same as my idea in hi sch

/must be tons of ga and graphs already on net  sig

/markj@dmi.net

/for some journaling is good way of handling problems

/things happen when you’re not looking; if things are meant to be they will happen.  sue gh

/passages

/ga for long term care insur cos

/how to handle trouble is sig and plenty of it.

to get rich   put $ where it will grow – re, stocks, own biz,  so that, like the rich, your taxes are 2%/yr, not like the average person who pays l2%.  avoid: eating out, clothes, dry clean, car wash, etc.  never a mort that is twice your annual inc.  best is no mort.  some rich are big hat, no cattle.  us news

/you don’t know what a relationship is until it involves $.  

/tom peters – in search of excellence

/this is like project in hi sch.

/wonder if i need another hopeless project like this. gan,  gatoc=let,

///  ga2=toc, ga3,       ga4 = the ga site?

/b & c manual

see:  ratings in file cab., m,

///sig files on ibm and in file cab

/friendship  you meet people where you play: humor, cul, rec, old hms, lectures, fitness,

/take dc, ny, holly… with a grain of salt.

/develop clout

/the ga idea would sell better if it was a story – like that park ranger.

/i took rel out of strong families. for fertilizer and mulch. actual

/id and bank /timeless advice? [Click on the subject of interest (in blue).]

/reason for this[] for paraphrasing

crime   avoiding, prevention ========  which other sec. belongs here.

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/trust your instincts when thinking a crime might be about to take place.

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/viscot, dr. laura

families, strong  (according to one survey) have:

 commitment,

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/men are raised to repress feelings, needs, fears.  macho idea: to not show emotions.

/some use humor to keep people from getting close.

/got to be mature and confident to share.

/listen with empathy.  la l2/ll/9l

/lucky are those who marry their best friend.

/don’t expect more than a handful of true friends in your lifetime.  a friend is a friend no matter what color, position, sex, age, etc.

———–

/friends are for legit gossip= news

/a friend is someone you can live thru – so to spk

/ma said socially, you have to sometime instigate – people want to see you but need someone to take the initiative.  

/have a mix of friends

/once a [true] friend, always a friend.

/people feel about you the way you feel bout yourself.

/a good mirror is an old friend

/diff friends bring out things in you and they CAN’T see it.

/a friend is someone you see part of yourself in

/some friends are very unassuming, unpresuming, not terribly spectacular, calm, pleasant – being around them is comfortable – those are friends.  NOT the ones where you might be trying to climb the social ladder.   came from going over old lets

/a friend is someone you can swear around. belch, etc.

/disappointed to find you can’t be fully honest with some most friends.??

/www.advice.com time and tide wait for no man.

/ike’s advice – can’t find

/need to boil down as many have their egos wrapped up in ad.

mature  secure:  self-accept.  warm toward self, no need for atten, praise or proving anything.  not put down nor defensive when con.. criticized.  not hurt by losing  [or by others ????]   no fault finding.

happy carefree.  what you are doing now is more sig than what you’ve done.  ea. day is the lst day of the rest of your life.  

friendship  =============  friends are where you find them.

/right distance from friends and relatives, co-workers.

/”friends” at work aren’t nec. friends elsewhere.

/all this family and friend stuff teaches you NEVER to tell anyone your assets, etc.  they want you to spend it, they could

/l on l friends vs in grp

[- Love and accept yourself enuff to not worry about what others think of you.]  then you can

/friendship – Be somewhat? tolerant.  A self-righteousness person thinks it’s better to be right than loved.  You try to please them and can’t.  You can never do enough.  (If people don’t believe in you, back off.)  

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scan   kinko:  $9.95/item.  or $20/hr with photo shop.

/should state my biases: divorce, gay, abort, cons

/alpa order later in ea subject  EVERYDAY  ADVICE

/emergencies – yellow pages

/the more a man is preoccupied with himself, the more he diminshes himself.

grief  time heals partially.  not the lst to go thru this.  sorrow comes to all … often with

/if you don’t share your grief, you don’t give those who love you a chance to love you enuff.  dina shore

/happiness comes from good living.  it is wanting what we get – expect nothing/no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

/if you try to be someone else, you waste the person you are.

resources   htm  files

dysfunct.htm,  whatlove.htm,  grief.htm,   friendt.htm. socially.htm

/on line pscyh = 0.    viscot, peale, pos think

/motivation

/quiet desparation/mystery why lot in life doesn’t work and also why lot does.

/on line psych = 0

/self improvement on line.  can link mine with them.  hookey?

psych self help by   .. tucker.  =  bad.

/bbb/ncib,    /best I’ve come up with on:

/sometime carjackers will take your car and put you in the trunk as a hostage.  Your trunk should carry a flashlight, water, trunk release, and crowbar in case the release doesn’t work, cell phone.

/a faithful friend is a treasure, a medicine of life,

/pay people compliments

/neal says i need some stp access from netcom.  it let’s me or neal put my site on my account.

/treat people not how you’d like to be treated, but how they’d like to be treated.

/neal said no p. numbers is a plus

/grief is better shared.

/expect 0 – don johnson

/it’s: what do you need to know to get thru life.  what is some of the best advice?/www.netcom.com/~a3

/turget  84l 5335  – some techie

motivation

notify that i have site:  trig, yen

/preface to love

/revised  ____  on title page

the site

 – is extra thru netcom?/how my site is diff:  finds hm quick [as no graphics], returns to hm page quick ea. time you seek another subject.  sensible, logical layout [outline], easy to understand as plain lang. gets to pt, outline form.  revised.  wisdom

research, graphs,

self-help

and often timeless advice

==============

/many like divorce should be balanced with those happier on 2nd marriage.

/only sensible links

/interesting how you get a problem, it seems to possess you, but your mind is doing the right thing – working on it.  in time you often come up with the right answer.  cor, fam

/d. carnegie, genius of cs:  don’t criticize, complain, or condemn.  show respect to others shows dignity.  admit mistakes quickly.  people crave to be appreciated.  

/loneliness – lot of people have it, and don’t want to admit it.  lot go to church for that reason.  

/be a clearinghse?

/misc slogans, proverbs, etc:  from football locker rm.

/something of what you need to get thru life.  life’s lessons.

/pol sec: elections, dem, free press,

/one problem is age grp  

/talk shows, advice columns, labor – law?

/counseling,- help biz as make better and happier workers.

/as guides for children, employees, committees, etc., – great challenge  find best advice ever – proverbs, aphorisms – t into usable practical, form accidents,, and perhaps references to links, books, etc. of advice.

/rehab, probation and parole

/insur cos should drop premiums for weight loss, etc.

/my site could help qualify clients for risk levels.

/incentive systems  via? mng consulting

/like the mature driver’s discount

/actuarial tables

`/which maturity tests

/challenge of finding the best and often the most timeless advice ever – often handed down over the ages – make it easy to read, print and post.  done preliminary work on my

/no play on words.  clearinghouse functions.  self-made types.

/good hsekeeping inst  /how to.    They might get lower premiums. clients who used the advice would ‘score’ well in a number of areas and be good risks. /me to be cr /i retired early and don’t need to make money; but often people don’t appreciate what they don’t pay for.  /two parts: incentives and gen [for pr]     lloyd’s of london  

/Other items would create good public relations.

/endorsements: com on resp philantrophy, bbb, goodhsekping …

/would netovations get interested as a partner.  /aerobic test.  ?

purpose   in everything i’ve been in there were hard lessons which could have been made easier if someone had outlined the basics.  sch, wk, health.  ratings = revenge [pros, sw, etc]

$    /l48 to neal, interactive to convert it and put it on net.  $50 to turgut to get it on netcom.

resources   bk of inside info,

/book of inside information    just add it to gen bks   ???

Bottom line books –  0 – bottom line books   –  0

biz   clghse for incentive systems – 0

incentive systems.

deming, drucker, nam, us c of c, promotion, workers happier in personal lives, health, tap potential – growth, vals, personal skills, build loyalty.  to create more effective workers.

misc  

/how to’s  /not crime, but security

It would be useful to individuals, families, and the fields of  counseling, religion, social work, mental health, criminalogy, education, and the media.  

 easy to read, print and post. provide a valuable public service

/i should probably download my site onto a disk or ask em to

/do it yourselfers

/this appeals to the egos of the fields.  what’s sig in life

`/beh mod sys or ratings.  sw  

/macarthur f    

/become more conscious of who he is and what he has to offer,  type of thing that challenges youth.  find retired person with no kids who wants to leave something behind.

`/all purpose incentive sys  via www.inc.com

/turgut – advanced web technologies.

/ba for doing biz in asia /devel: get sponsor, research, expan

/life is what happens while you’re making other plans

 digesting, paraphrasing, public relations,

/ poor  r almanak

/what to leave behind & how-find a mate

/nothing flashing

/Incentive system    www.inc.com/incmagazine/archieves/092921032.html  dup

`/incentive sys for charity.

/perfect for personel

/rate pol writings – sig

/the employee who uses this advice will be more effective, be more mature for his age bracket, be happier, be ready sooner for promotion, advancement.  the whole co more competitive

——–

/univ? / the challenge to every field: which are the best ways to

– be healthy – physically, mentally.   – get along with people, develop friendship,   – find one’s work,    – prepare for it,

– manage money,   – raise a family,   – retire/essential books for cons

/banks – criteria for investments?

`/how to    protect your id,

staff   find info – specially incentive systems, confirm sources, put results in terms of %’s, try to adapt it to what looks like my format?, send it to me,   

me   final say  as most pages on the net are a joke, can boil it down [too much?], make it sensible, give it an overview, make it easy to move from subject to subject, usable,

/the ultimate how to site.

/l 888 doctors  $l500

/ford, gm, ge, mobil, toyota, honda, mb, boeing

/trick is to keep an overview, find sys, boil down those that need it insurance, business, personnel,

/how to approach is best, causes curiosity mature,

/people who want to get to the PT!   who don’t need to be entertained by silly graphics

/legal statement on bestdr

/criteria:  useful, practical, simple, clear, tested

`/all purpose incentive system: www.inc.com/incmagazine/archives/02921032.html 

sitename  

/how to handle life, improve your life.  how to guide for self-helpers.

/them: pay for my hi speed modem

/list those i didn’t buy like aa test

/clutter defeats it

/someone that thinks the way i do: overview

/them:  double check info

/real friends love you no matter what.  jo

`/adviceon.com     goodadvice.com   howto

/o.c. color graphics, on cerritos, org.

/leeza, ann landers, dear abby, self-help grps, support groups,

, lobbies  harvard biz sch, uci,

/best ref books for …

 hulbert’s rating of newslets – can’t find ————————-

it provides advice on:  how to lose weight, manage money, find one’s work, get along with people, make friends, avoid crime, and rate one’s family.

It could include how to: parent, handle grief, find care for an aging parent . . . the list is endless.

I’ve started a ‘how to’ website – www.netcom.com/~a3   – on how to handle the subjects below

I’d like to expand it with the help of an organization like yours.

/dr. cooper – the new aerobics

/price waterhouse, pete marwich & mitchel

/’job’ or ‘career?’

/if i’m made to carry the load i’ll get bitter

hm page  have graphs?

/you can have a good career and or kids and marriage, but not all three.

/true friendship is rarer than true love,  said someone on the net.   wow.

/al’showto.com

/briggs-cunningham given by … haldane?  which by sen mathias off.

/usefuladvice.com, goodadvice.com    Designed to be useful, practical

`/The ‘how to’ site.  howtosite.com

/Purpose of this site

/rating forms?

   n.a – not listed.  recs = 0home page                            (I’m always looking for more.  Suggestions are appreciated.)

/the best guidelines A budding collection of the best advice the author has found, along with some of his writings.  

/endorsements won’t work as always changing.

(Click on the blue)

– do i want html or the more stick-like sans serif or whatever it is?

www.netcom.com/bin/pbuilder       for ftp [& space left] in html.  html via netscape browser or i net explo

cost  l48  – neal, 50 – turgut, l50 – elaine – let, 75 – norvick, 400 for wk his son did.

/bernard haldane & assc.

`/lord acton   – oscar wilde

/biz:  countries with most econ freedom – sig file – economist

/families of murder victims.  co-victims handbk to prep em for legal sys.

/could have been easily told; learn hard way, tell others, few interested

/ht.com  = how to

/has to be one of the easiest sites to use.  sig

/charity – grameen

/ann landers ency, us news, dale carnegie, fidelity?,

/the sig of ratings can’t be overstated, the need, way of getting back.

/atm card, credit cards and reports, checks, phone, preapproved credit.

– how long would it take me to learn how to make revisions

/you call the tune, you pay the piper.

 –  Safest times to bank

The riskiest time is mid-morning – as freeways are clearer for escape.  The riskist days are the lst and last of the month and Fridays.  The safest days are Thurs, Sat and Sun.  Armed guards promote risk.  Bullet proof partitions decrease it.

/website of advice on  health, $, job, crime, fam, disc,

/think.com as my tag/self-help book I’ve started called:

LISTS  OF  ADVICE

on human nature, leadership, maturity, marriage, school, success, trouble, values,

 most people need only a list of main points as reminders of how to look for work, be healthy, etc.

These lists would be the main section, and they would be on 8 l/2 by ll pages for easy copying.  Many people would use them as guides for their children, employees, committees, etc.  Brief explainations might be in a separate section.  Sources could follow.  The work has been done by experts; it’s a matter of assembling it.

  Such a book would be highly practical and have broad appeal.  

/religion, mil?, academia,

/executive service corps  [retired exs.]  score?

/best advice assumes quality.  must be quality thruout

/she’ll put name of org at top to individ… ea let

/the most sensible site on the net?

/the new aerobics by dr. kenneth? cooper

/building and storing files

/please look at my site, look past the name, lack of graphics, and … to see the potential.  it’s not to get my stuff in print  /should be that a consult would get % of how much he lowers a co’s health costs [with incentive sys]

/pay researchers by the word that i use

/do travel too as all levels.  

/typeritepl@aol.com – sec serv

/elaine nale, 9900 petunia ave, ft. val, ca  92708, 775  0l44

/taking info and making simple – graphing it is one way

/newsweek not? on line.  wow.  time.com didn’t have use you can use.  what about w post

/0 on fire prediction table  or pablo scale.

/UL – worst

/gan for gov – rating: indy, pri fire dept, prisons, crime, taxes, unions,  = qual of life?

/[rate your family]

/cost:  l50 neal,  50  turgot,  l08 so far to elaine,

/sig:  this starts with individuals, families, businesses, later goes to cities, states, countries.  

/see security?

-/advice for those who like to beat the game  (Click on the blue)  

/revisions to turgut 7/l7  and no action by 8/25

/it’s my revenge.  slim fast too

/great potential as 90% of the sites on the net are SO disorganized.  major biz may be orged, but their sites are not.  uncanny.

/criteria: how many yrs has this site or info been established

/my ga site = me.  

/add (fee) to best drs?  anything else?

/is best drs for rare conditions?

/he who hesitates is lost vs … look before you leap.  

/make and play for the breaks,  don’t count the days,

/I’m told 640 by 480 is nec. as old computers can’t handle anything bigger.  true?

/good living is the best revenge

/family problems [cruelty] teach you also bout your friends.  some blow it.

title   ga, advice on almost everything, ga, everday advice, for all seasons. should sound like ann landers or poor richard.

netadvice.

/wasn’t answering my phone for a while.  was going to tell guys i’m no home is f

purpose of this site.

This is for those who like to beat the game with and tips, some timeless, some contemporary.  get ahead, cut thru the frills, get to the basics of matter, realism,

reminders,  ========- do sites with www. and the name   automatically show up in blue so they can be clicked on or do they have to include http:/

/purpose:  cut thru feel good, platitudes, theory, idealism  whole purpose is CLEAR thinking.  No part of this site may be reproduced in any form or used to gain direct or indirect fees without permission of a. garner.  /ga should fit right into incentive sys and visa versa

/landlording bk?/the blue cross check up

`/Your chance of heart problems        this must be that ariz thing   heart risk factor analysis –

 heart risk factor calculator Images

1  If you are over 55, score 1  ___

2  If you are male   score 1  ___

3  For one or more close blood relatives who have had a heart attack or stroke before age 60   score l2 _____

For one or more who have had either after 60 score 6

4 If you have had one or more heart attacks, heart or blood vessel surgery or a strok before age 50, score 20  ____

If you’ve had one or more after 50 score l0 ___

If you’ve had diabetes before age 40 and are now on insulin, score l0 ____-

turns out the site has a general description of 25 words i wasn’t told about by turgut’s place.  oh boy.

/title:  best advice, etc, best tips !!!

/it’s a site of advice, ratings, insight, tips,

/accident info under car seat

/how to avoid cults

/top or best incentive sys..     college outline series

/typist wanted copy of my site.  

/typeritepl@aol.com – sec serv/not an infomercial/incentive sys on net – no clarity

/ancient and modern wisdom.   wisdom written across bk

========================

/farrell’s  ice cream parlour, l3l3 pearl st. eugene, or.  sent card asking for logo

/elaine nale, 9900 petunia ave, ft. val, ca  92708, 775  0l44

/friends appreciate each other [as they are on the same wave length]

/forcing conv is as bad as forcing smiles

/$75 to norvick  l0/l5/98

/consider the source: experts or one man.  a co that’s pushing a product.    look for a reputable name: a resp org,

/feedback – additions, sites which offer similar material, other [practical] self-help sites.

/regrettably personal replies are not possible

/get to pt in a logical [orged] way

/take notes and long walks

/tried to look up  c outline series on net.  no real luck

/tap into old la times files

/know what’s good about loneliness?  you’re alone so much, you leave a lot of yourself where you’ve been.  there is so much of me in NY, D.C., etc.

/glghse for practical advice

================================== = = =

http://www.expertexecutiverecruiters.com/  – not what I want.

The Internet also can help job hunters connect with headhunters. Texas-based Executive Recruiter Galleria

has an online list of search firms, while giant Korn/Ferry International just unveiled a service with the Wall Street Journal called Futurestep www.futurestep.com  same.  which lets management professionals register free for unadvertised, top-tier positions, then E-mails them with appropriate matches.   98

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/elaine nale, 9900 petunia ave, ft. val, ca  92708, 775  0l44

/collab should be abstract

/potential: good idea waiting to happen.  clnghse for good advice on and off the net.

/who rates the sites.  sig   

/best job hunting sites comes up twice.   caps for titles of bks?

/the net is so convoluted that it wouldn’t occur to many on it to gather such advice, [like best drs, best lawyers] but more important, they wouldn’t put it into sensible form.

/should easily beat the competition. [and there is none]

/there are probably lot of good sites to be discovered [like best doctors and best lawyers].  organizing them is the key.

/part of luck is preparation meeting opportunity

/the challenge of finding the best advice gen and specific that we all have run across belatedly – what makes life easier.  techniques – the WAY to do things

/sponsors should have to compete to be a part of it.

/me:  i hate sites.  one person.  i can’t keep a lot in my mind at once.  age?

 it only takes one good friend to know what friendship is about.  

/ga: ratings etc. as writing, etc. is soooo hard and confirmed truths are sooo sig

/www.georgetown.edu

/ ihcrp.hipaa  for your rights re health plans ???????????  very hard.  bur. – probably should skip it.  got it from cr

/ http://travel.state.gov   for warnings in which the workers who improved their health, skills, etc. would earn rewards and

/machiavelli

/employee handbook  on net via ????

/look up evaluation  on net

/highway loss data inst.  had the risk eval…. for cars?

/ktla cyberguy – how to get best airline tickets.  others have it too?

/this would give me credentials.  best part was cr revision with larry

/blue to maroon.

/kanter who taugth disc

/overview

/put my name on disc.  etc.

/ www.buy.com   ?    stick with proven brands, cos, compare, check shipping costs, return and cancelation policies, don’t be taken in by flashy websites.

/keeping xmas sensible

/working on car must be so enjoyable as i can see myself physically accomplishing something vs the intellectual life.

/internet bargan finder – finds best price.  something about anderson consulting

/try key words to see if search engs take me to my site/have always felt managing one’s time and $ are paramount/it’s about finding out who you are/what are the main points of the best motivational talks.  sermons, etc.  the best advice ea. of us has been given.

/top books in ea field  /what % was written by me.  skip

/best counselors, shrinks, …

.reminders., but I don’t want to pass up something lucrative.  

/find a need and fill it/some incentive sys via Performance ….   in file cab, under beh mod?SIG  diff levels   person, fam, biz, sch,

/for self-help types who like to beat the game                              

 gen   perspective, family life, gain insights, grow, become more mature, lifestyle, solid vals

work    Job hunting tips help workers discover and move toward their main interests becoming happier and more effective.

gen     challenge selves, gain insights into selves, practical motivation, realism,

Disc     basic to a calm homes and classrooms.

/credit bureaus, security cos.  /seasonal section much later /farmers had non-smokers rate for insur /sherwood@mato.com  covers workplace topics for reuters/investing cos would have a long term int. in those who adopt inc sys.  takes too long/ga – indiv  sec.  co sec/friendship belongs under people/see friends   key words      for search engines

advice, everyday advice, practical advice,

help, counseling, assistance,

self-help, self-improvement,

tips, suggestions, pointers, recommendations,

guidelines, guideposts,

insights, wisdom, understanding, aphorisms,

everyday living, daily life,

————-

/toast at astm

/if you ever bookmarked my site, press the reload button to get latest version

/aaa    /sig in overview.  

/ga = proving self right [as wouldn’t listen to me]

/thrill of finding best drs. and lawyers .com and adding em

/argus clghse = 0

/my site could help qualify clients for risk levels.  ????

/frust with writing is mot for ga – to find good writing, wisdom.

/rate diets

/when you lie down you get 80% of the rest you get when sleeping.

/older you get, the more you find out that people let you down

/no one ever tells you: how much wk a hse is, how writing is heartbreaking, computer field is screwed,

/org takes vision

/diagram on what to do with your life

/my site is payback  – thus incentive systems is perfect.

back at sch, mil, jobs, religion

/ga – to get back at every idiotic theory.  slim fast.  rm, $, tradvals, cr?, depth,

/of the l0 on ga in 5/99,

/ba  – doing biz with asians or jap…

/dj said get involved without any expectations.

/sue gh  smgh@hotmail.com   www.pricetek.com  does web pages.  i didn’t like hers.  nor impressed with having family album on it.  $l00 for lst and $50 for ea additional.  said i paid too much for mine.

/cr has a book:  How to plan for a secure retirement

/against law to sell a lemon   rent a kvetch

/fee for cr

/al norvick  1 562 924 0872  scdj@earthlink.com   wife sounds normal.

/my site is restful, easy on the eyes.  gentle.  calm, pro.

/charity – grammen   and some site under issues.

/your mind can play tricks with you and you can get bad advice from slipperys like chet on nancy.  He would go to mimi’s dances tho not invited and chase young women, and would talk about it.

`/== toc =====================

abortion

accidents, auto  ??

adoption

aged

birth contorl

choosing a: dr, law, shrink

cults

disabled

diets, rated

gambling

insurance?

intelligence, types of

lifestyles     homo

maturity   under?  mh?

mentalities, political – under psych

porn

prejudice

religion

sex

siblings

social classes         

smoking

steparents

volunteering

/Online counseling  –  What You Should Know When You Log On 
     The International Society for Mental Health Online (recently released principles to help protect therapists and consumers communicating online. The principles include:
     – The client should be informed about the process, potential risks and benefits of the service, safeguards against risks, and alternatives to the service.
     – Clients should be told that misunderstandings are possible. They should be told how quickly therapists will respond.
     – The client should know the name of the counselor, the counselor’s qualifications (including degree, license and certification), and any special training or degrees. The client should be told how to confirm this information with relevant institutions (such as the state licensing board).
     – The counselor should remain within his or her boundaries of competence, and not attempt to address a problem online if he or she would not attempt to address the same problem in person.
     – The counselor should meet any necessary requirements (such as state licensing) to provide services where he or she is located and, if necessary, where the client is located.
     – The counselor and client should agree on the frequency and mode of communication, method for determining the fee, the estimated cost to the client, and the method of payment.
     – The counselor should adequately evaluate the client before providing services.
     – The confidentiality of the client should be protected.
     – The counselor should maintain records of the online services. If those records include copies of communications with the client, the client should be informed.
     – Procedures to follow in an emergency should be discussed. The counselor should obtain the name of a local health-care provider who can be contacted in an emergency.

Search the archives of the Los Angeles Times for similar stories about:  Internet (Computer Network), Computer Services Industry, Psychology, Therapy, Counseling.

You will not be charged to look for stories, only to retrieve one.     3/6/00

`/crime – safe streets now, neigh watch, sos [save our streets]  !!!

`/parenting    back in control, tuff luv

/up the org  – the book

/kelly issacson talked of wanting to start a ref. site.  She might help mine, but she might be way off.  949 465 3950 x 3622. sweet, pleasant, polite,   cel phone 949 300 9043.  

`/the best way to handle social life and many things is to relax so that you can be your natural self.

/one is as successful professionally as he is socially.  

/try broadcom – it’s local

  part of the register – links to TONS of hints

/al n: frt p is complex; geo is not.

/turgut of advanced web tech…  but their no is void? 2/0l

/start ga , then feed essay into it?

/sig :  the secret is that it’s on the net, but messed up and always will be.

`/Truer for companies that use incentive systems, which the site only touches on). apply to own org.

/tank could go for this?  or a mh org.  soc serv org.

/find the good guidelines and sys that exist, time tested.

POTENTIAL    permanence as some timeless, opra, others want their causes approved of, economic, political,

/should provoke this:  why didn’t anyone tell me.

.  life is not getting getting what you want, but appreciating what you have.

/st farm has calculators

/no acronyms

/ralph nader’s bks  http://www.csrl.org/centerbooks/booklist.html 

COLLAB – detail what I want – a fried?

/buy a link, ad your site – http://sprinks.about.com 

I should always pursue this in an enjoyable way

Inc.com, get in dicussion, bottom, add new discussion

`/INCENTIVE SYS:  see ga8,  

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66. Amazon.com: Customer Reviews: Catalogue of economic incentive systems for the
Books. All Products. Explore this book. buying info. See more by this author. all books by Stephen Bailey Share your thoughts.

/want a reply? Then be sure your @ is in text or add it

/text only site

/basic approach is overview – find those who’ve done the work

self improvement [without dash] to 40?  Try with dash

sell ideas – interesting

/sounded good as partner.  Sent gal5

/recommend our site.

/search incentive sys  needed, wanted.   How to reduce cost, boost productivity.

/donations and sponsorship

/type of person who actually uses cr, not who thinks it’s good, but actually uses it.  and can prove it.

/made to order p.r. project.   Nothing more practical

/I or agency find an org, they do all I have outlined, incentive sys is the key for $? Also others pay to be on our site.

– – – – from bl:

Following the Simple Rules of Continuous Improvement to *Enhance Your Business, Your Life

Dan Sullivan  The Strategic Coach, Inc.      thus  Dan Sullivan The Strategic Coach, Inc.  but it’s hard to tell

Special from Bottom Line/Business    shabby common problem of successful business owners: They launch their companies with great gusto, do all of the start-up tasks themselves, watch the business begin to flourish and then arrive at a point where it seems impossible to reach higher levels of success.

I call this hitting the “Ceiling of Complexity.” You know you’ve hit it if you’re still doing everything yourself — filing, sending out invoices, working with clients — and feel as if you’re being pulled in too many different directions to be effective in any one of them.

Key: It’s where stress, frustration and fatigue are constant and increasingly nagging companions.

The good news is that you can change your work habits and break through the Ceiling — achieving greater success personally and professionally. Here’s how…

Identify your “Unique Ability.” By now, it’s clear that there’s something about you and the way you run your business that sets you apart from the crowd. It’s made up of the activities you absolutely love to do and have a unique talent for.

Extreme examples: Wayne Gretzky is uniquely skilled in hockey… Bill Gates is a passionate computer software genius… Warren Buffett has a special talent and apparent love for the art of investing.

To identify your Unique Ability, think about…

Something you love doing so much that you could do it all day, every day, and feel energized rather than exhausted by it.

Something that comes naturally to you and is relatively easy to do.

An activity at which you always excel — so much so that people comment on your tremendous skill and success.

Learn to delegate duties that are not part of your Unique Ability. The most successful entrepreneurs focus exclusively on their Unique Ability and delegate almost everything else to people who have Unique Abilities in other areas.

Example: I don’t have an E-mail address or a voice mailbox — responding to customer queries isn’t my role in the organization. My Unique Abilities include generating new ideas, speaking to large groups and coaching entrepreneurs. By spending my time doing those things, I grow my business and help make it — and me — better and better.

Divide your time into Free Days, Focus Days and Buffer Days. You’ll be far more productive if you set aside time to completely relax and let go… to do research and preparation… and to engage in key results-producing business-related activities, than if you just let each day “happen” to you. Very helpful…

I teach entrepreneurs to divide their time this way: 150 days of the year are Free Days, during which they should do only what does them and the business the most good — and spend plenty of time doing things that rejuvenate them mentally, physically and spiritually… 80 days are Buffer Days used to handle the research, tasks and details of doing business… and the remaining 135 days are Focus Days devoted to the most important business-building activities.

Be “referable.” The big part of growing your business and personal excellence is to convey an attitude of respect and appreciation to those you do business with — employees as well as clients.

Demonstrate respect for other people’s schedules, goals and values, and make sure no one working with you — or for you — ever feels taken for granted. Your business will grow because employees and customers will sing your praises to anyone who will listen, and that is the best marketing tool there is. How to be referable…

Show up on time.

Do what you say you will do.

Finish what you start.

Say “please” and “thank-you.”

Get rid of your office. Offices are places where bureaucratic nonsense and piles of stuff accumulate — and where your personal productivity is often reduced.

By getting rid of your office and using meeting rooms for business that needs to be conducted behind closed doors, you’ll be able to focus on the truly productive work that will propel you and your company forward — your Unique Abilities… long-term customer relationships… and new business opportunities.

First Printed: September 1, 2000 

/search  ‘what works’   did.

/atlas should want to work with me on how to setup dem, etc. if I get to the ir level.

/effective giving     charity

/should I get sep free sites for my other stuff.  No, later.

/can’t get myself to add to site, gal4, & save-ga [which should be money-ga] as no pt if no sponsor.

/my thinking end of  4/0l is work on ga as

guides:

personal [case it doesn’t fly]

life, religion, best l00 books for various fields.

dom vs ir [get more done], will

orgs, tanks, links

their agendas

as collabs

/fhp found..  lb. funded by fhp inc. of ft. val.  

/comprehensive care

/moving:  those site which id criminals in your neigh.

/pacificare health systems

/I need an org to take this up.  Later bring out how the or could use it itself for its employees and clients.

/gal5 sent out 4/l2/0l to a lot of places?  Ins, etc.

www.learn2.com   – ibm      ty – takes forever to get to the pt.  Discouraging to think of working with them.  Their site is so bad it’s like a diff lang.  Gal5 to their employ…  and to partnering.    hope I never have to see their site again.

/look up ‘how to sites’

/promote your site – http://www.more-business-from-your-site.bgood2you.com 

/those assembly tips on www.arrowsheds.com ? are in small print? Or hard to grasp – like book, sooooooo  these how to’s are NOT as clear as the writer would like to think.

http://www.usdrugrehabcenters.com 

`/search tip sheets

Your Therapy Source   thus?

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`/this is a good one

>  by Andy Rooney, a man who has the gift of saying so much with so few words.

> .. the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

> .. when you’re in love, it shows.

> .. just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

> .. having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

> .. being kind is more important than being right.

> .. you should never say no to a gift from a child.

> .. I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some

 other way.

> .. no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

> .. sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

> .. simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child

 did wonders for me as an adult.

> .. life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

> .. we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

> .. money doesn’t buy class.

> .. it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

> . under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

> .. the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

> .. to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

> .. when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to

 hurt you.

> .. love, not time, heals all wounds.

> .. the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter

 than I am.

> .. everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

> .. there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on

 your cheeks.

> .. no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

> .. life is tough, but I’m tougher.

> .. opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

> .. when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

> .. I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.

> .. one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat

 them.

> .. a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your  looks.

> .. I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

> .. when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, you’re hooked for life.

> .. everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs

 while you’re climbing it.

>  . it is best to give advice in> only two circumstances; when it is requested and when

 it is a life threatening situation.

> .. the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

> To all of you…. Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.

/contacts so sig that I should go thru oak ONLY. Or scot, immel

/disaterata –

`/bottom line,  l0/6/02

*Hard Work Isn’t Enough — How to Stand Out and Succeed

Al Ries    Special from Bottom Line/Personal    under constrllll you’re applying for a new job or shooting for a promotion. Or maybe you’re simply concerned about holding on to your current job in this shaky economy.

Four helpful strategies…

1. Focus on the person you are trying to impress. Most people think hard work is the key to success. That is rarely enough. Unless you stand out in your employer’s mind, you are just one of many competent workers.

Figure out what the employer is looking for. What is he/she likely to notice? How do you distinguish yourself from others? Here’s what to do…

Research the company on the Internet. Pay particular attention to new products and strategies, which are often outlined in press releases posted on the company’s Web site.

Check the industry press for information. 

Ask about new hires — education, previous jobs, special skills, etc. Or use the Internet and industry resources mentioned above to get information.

Ask people who work for the company or a competitor about its products and strategies.

Obviously, this is important if you are applying for a new job at an unfamiliar firm, but it is also useful if you are already an employee. You may not be aware of all management’s decisions.

2. Emphasize your specialness. Do you have something the employer wants? Play it up. Or highlight something he might not have thought of and isn’t obviously looking for.

If you have a legal background, for instance, but the job description doesn’t call for one, point out how legal skills could give you an edge. It may be your powers of persuasion, analytical skills or negotiating savvy.

If something that sets you apart might be considered a liability, put a positive spin on it. If you are older, for instance, you might tout an extensive network of contacts. If you are shooting for a medical-writing slot but haven’t done much medical writing, demonstrate that you are skilled at explaining complex issues. The more clearly you define yourself, the better the impression you make.

3. Market your successes. Select an accomplishment, and play it up. Say you sold television advertising time to a client who had not advertised before. You don’t just sell advertising — you identify advertising opportunities that others overlook.

Or give yourself a label to help others zero in on your strengths.

Example: You turned a money-losing division of your company into a money maker. If you look for a new position in your company — or outside — you can label yourself a turnaround artist.

4. Hook up with a winner. Even a mediocre jockey can win a race if he/she rides a good horse. The same is true for career climbers.

If your company isn’t a winner, you are probably not going to go very far no matter how good you are. Hook up with a winning company — and a boss who is on the fast track. If your boss goes places, you will probably go along.

Signs of a winning company: Introduces products one step ahead of its competition… receives favorable press… has stock that performs well… attracts top candidates when jobs open up.

Signs of a boss on the fast track: Handles assignments central to the company’s bottom line… tackles problems of concern to senior management… is invited and contributes to important meetings.

How do you switch bosses if yours is a loser? Very carefully. Loyalty is prized — naked ambition is not.

Explain to your current boss that you want to change departments so you can broaden your experience. The key is to make it look like a learning experience for you — a way to make yourself more versatile and productive — rather than a way to ditch your boss.

Whatever you do, don’t spread gossip or badmouth your boss or employer. Negative talk — and its source — has a way of getting back to the boss.

First

/tips for Halloween – http://web.ctsionline.com/clientMarketing/twla/pages/halloween.html 

www.keen.com – looking for partners

www.liveadvice.com  – scam?

/http://www.bottomlinesecrets.com  – under constr….

/ http://www.howstuffworks.com  – 0

/revising one’s will every few yrs helps clarify one’s priorities.

/it’s not what pros understand as much as what YOU understand.  You understand c.r.  you can understand at the end of each yr what % your investments made.  Beyond that for the layman, it’s all smoke and mirrors.  

/ farmers – http://www.farmers.com – still disappointing

/tips from dentist – ibm repair

/scariest  thing I read was that your professional success parallels your personal success.  

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*How to Get What You Want in Life, Lessons from History’s Experts

But this is not the same   How to Get What You Want in Life, Lessons from History’s Experts

/same title but by   Robert Greene   – How to Get What You Want in Life, Lessons from History’s Experts, robert green      same?  Overlap?

reat strategists as different as Queen Elizabeth I, Machiavelli, Sun Tzu and Henry Kissinger have all operated according to similar underlying principles — the rules of power. Knowing how to use power effectively — whether in the boardroom or the rec room — is the key to getting what you want.

I have studied thousands of years of history, looking for the universal laws behind the achievements of those who have successfully transformed their will into action. Here is what I learned…

Say less than necessary. The less you say, the more profound, mysterious — and powerful — you appear.

Short answers and silences put others on the defensive, forcing them to jump in and fill the silence, thereby revealing information about themselves — and their weaknesses.

The more you say, the more likely you’ll say something foolish.

French king Louis XIV always had two advisers argue different sides of an issue and always ended the discussion by saying, “I shall see.” Louis never let anyone know what he was thinking. Therefore no one could ever tell him what they thought he wanted to hear. Result: He terrified his underlings and kept them under his thumb.

Henry Kissinger once returned a report to a subordinate with these curt seven words, Is this the best you can do? The writer reworked and polished the report, re-submitted it and got back the same note. Again he rewrote and improved the report, only to get the same response. Damn it, the official finally wrote, this is the best I can do. Kissinger replied, Okay, I’ll read it this time.

Guard your reputation. Nothing is more powerful than your reputation. Creating and controlling a reputation exaggerates your strengths. If you’re known for achievement, people expect those things from you and will go out of their way to make it happen.

Build a reputation by focusing on a single quality, such as honesty, diplomacy or awe-inspiring efficiency.

If you’ve already soiled your reputation, it’s hard to regain it — but not impossible. Associate with those who have the reputation you want.

Another way to improve your reputation is to subtly destroy someone else’s views. A bold attack will give you a reputation for being vengeful. But poke a few holes in someone else’s opinion, and public opinion will do the rest.

Remember — a reputation is something you give yourself. If you don’t like it, change it.

Example: JP Morgan and Henry Frick were symbols of greed and ruthlessness in the 19th century. But once they began collecting art, they permanently linked their names to the reputations of Da Vinci and Rembrandt. Today they’re remembered as much for being great art collectors as robber barons.

Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Some people bring misfortune to themselves through their own destructive behavior. If you try to change them, it’s more likely you’ll be changed — infected by their damaging emotions and ways of thinking… or at least frustrated.

Positive qualities are infectious. Some people draw prosperity upon themselves by good cheer and natural buoyancy.

Never associate with those who share your defects. They will reinforce everything that holds you back. If you are sullen, seek out the happy. If you are shy, force yourself to befriend the outgoing. You’re judged by your peers — make sure they have the qualities you want to develop.

Example: Napoleon was a rough peasant with a bad temper, but his minister Talleyrand was a gracious aristocrat with courtly manners. Napoleon kept Talleyrand around to smooth out his rough edges.

Transform weakness into power. Don’t fight for honor’s sake. Deprive your foe of the satisfaction of defeating you. Giving in conceals power. It makes your foe complacent and gives you time to recoup and work on ways to undermine him/her.

People who care about showing their authority are easily undermined by the giving-in tactic. Outward submission makes them feel important, making them easier targets later for counterattack.

Don’t sacrifice long-term maneuverability for short-lived martyrdom. If you stay firm inside but bend on the outside, you will confuse your adversary.

Example: In ancient China, King Gou Jian lost a major battle to the ruler of Wu. Instead of fleeing, he surrendered, gave his conqueror his riches and went to work for him as a stable hand for three years. Finally, Gou Jian was freed. He raised an army and, using the knowledge he had gained about his opponent, attacked and defeated him.

Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect. Acting like someone else — whether it is a boss, peer or opponent — is what I call the mirror effect. Like a chameleon, assume the colors of your environment so no one can touch you.

Mirroring others will give them the feeling that you share their thoughts and goals. Everyone is consumed by his own ego. Try to impose your own ego and you meet resistance. But holding up a mirror makes others see what they want to see.

Feed the fantasies of others by finding out what they like and making those tastes your own. Put books by some of your boss’s favorite writers on your bookshelf. Don’t lecture people about their failings — they won’t listen. If you mirror their behavior, they will either ignore you or think about their own actions.

Example: In ancient Greece, the general Alcibiades was indulgent and unprincipled. But whenever he met Socrates he mirrored the philosopher’s behavior — eating simply and taking long walks to discuss the meaning of life and virtue. Socrates wasn’t totally fooled, but he was won over by Alcibiades. Socrates became an ardent supporter and even risked his life in battle to save Alcibiades.

Never appear perfect. Looking better than others is dangerous.  People will become envious and look for ways to trip you up. When others envy you, they will work against you.

Weed out envy before it takes root. Appear unambitious to your colleagues. Make power seem like at least something of a burden and sacrifice — something imposed upon you.  The appearance of self-sacrifice turns envy to pity.  People will feel bad for imposing on you instead of resenting you for what you have.

Display some defects — admitting to harmless vices will let you disarm people. Self-deprecating humor is a good way to disarm others.

Example: George Washington refused to keep the position of commander in chief of the American army. He also resisted the presidency. People who would normally resent someone with so much power urged him to take more.

First Printed: March 1, 2000

Bottom Line/Personal interviewed Robert Greene, author of the bestselling book The 48 Laws of Power (Viking). He is a writer and former editor at Esquire.

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http://www.successclinic.com/firstTime.html 

/who succeeded: viets, hug, rp, j martin, scot?, tj,

who didn’t: hutch, phil,

my site   3/03 before losing rr –

• 57 – hm p, memories1 – but 57site has it all?
• ga – useful?: imported bkmks, favs, ga.  Also: c/misc/misc2 !!!  so I must be covered.
• did lib disasters, misc writings, the lighter side,

/home dep has calculators: home much paint, carpet, insul, grass seed, tile, a/c

/half the fun of something is looking forward to it.

/money – it’s all relative.  It’s what you do with it [just like time]

——- – – from jill:

> > Home Remedies

> >

> >      Drinking two glasses of Gatorade can relieve headache pain almost

> >      immediately-without the unpleasant side effects caused by

> >      traditional pain relievers.

> >

> >      Did you know that Colgate toothpaste makes an excellent salve for

> >      burns.

> >

> >      Before you head to he drugstore for a high-priced inhaler filled

> >      with

> >      mysterious chemicals, try chewing on a couple of curiously strong

> >      Altoids

> >      peppermints. They’ll clear up your stuffed nose.

> >

> >      Achy muscles from a bout of the flu? Mix 1 Tablespoon of

> >      horseradish in

> >      1/2 cup of olive oil. Let the mixture sit for 30 minutes,then

> >      apply it as a

> >      massage oil, for instant relief for aching muscles.

> >

> >      Sore Throat?? Just mix 1/4 cup of vinegar with 1/4 cup of honey

> >      and take

> >      1 Tablespoon six times a day. The vinegar kills the bacteria.

> >

> >      Cure urinary tract infections with alka-seltzer. Just dissolve two

> >      tablets in

> >      a glass of water and drink it at the onset of the symptoms.

> >      Alka-Seltz er

> >      begins eliminating urinary tract infections almost instantly-even

> >      though the

> >      product was never been advertised for this use.

> >

> >      Eliminate puffiness under your eyes…..All you need is a dab of

> >      preparation

> >      H, carefully rubbed into the skin, avoiding the eyes. The

> >      hemorrhoid ointment

> >      acts as a vasoconstrictor, relieving the swelling instantly.

> >

> >      Honey remedy for Skin Blemishes……Cover the blemish with a dab

> >      of honey and place a band-aid over it. Honey kills the bacteria,

> >      keeps the skin sterile, and speeds healing. Works overnight.

> >

> >      Listerine therpy for toenail fungus….Get rid of unsightly

> >      toenail fungus by

> >      soaking your toes in Listerine mouthwash. The powerful antiseptic

> >      leaves your

> >      toenails looking healthy again.

> >

> >      Easy eyeglass protection….To prevent the screws in eyeglasses

> >      from

> >      loosening, apply a small drop of Maybelline Crystal Clear nail

> >      polish to the

> >      threads of the screws before tightening them.

> >

> >      Coca-Col a cure for rust…Forget those expensive rust removers.

> >      Just

> >      saturate an abrasive sponge with Coca Cola and scrub the rust

> >      stain. The

> >      phosphoric acid in the coke is what gets the job done.

> >

> >      Cleaning liquid that doubles as bug killer….If menacing bees,

> >      wasps,

> >      hornets, or yellow jackets get in your home and you can’t find the

> >

> >      insecticide, try a spray of Formula 409. Insects drop to the

> >      ground instantly.

> >      Quaker Oats for fast pain relief….It’s not for breakfast

> >      anymore! Mix

> >      2 cups of Quaker Oats and 1 cup of water in a bowl and warm in the

> >      microwave

> >      for 1 minute, cool slightly, and apply the mixture to your hands

> >      for soothing

> >      relief from arthritis pain.

> >

> >      Smart splinter remover…..just pour a drop of Elmers Glue-all

> >      over the

> >      splinter, let dry, and peel the dried glue off the skin. The

> >      splinter sticks to the dried glue.

> >

> >      Hunt’s tomato paste boil cure….Cover the boil with Hunt’s tomato

> >      paste as a

> >      compress. The acids from the tomatoes soothe the pain and bring

> >      the boil to a head.

> >

> >      Balm for broken blisters…..To disinfect a broken blister, dab on

> >      a few

> >      drops of Listerine….a powerful antiseptic.

> >

> >      Heinz vinegar to heal bruises…Soak a cotton ball in white

> >      vinegar an d

> >      apply it to the bruise for 1 hour. The vinegar reduces the

> >      blueness and

> >      speeds up the healing process.

> >

> >      Kills fleas instantly. Dawn dishwashing liquid does the trick. Add

> >      a few

> >      drops to your dog’s bath and shampoo the animal thoroughly. Rinse

> >      well to

> >      avoid skin irritations. Goodbye fleas

> >

> >      Rainy day cure for dog odor….Next time your dog comes in from

> >      the rain,

> >      simply wipe down the animal with Bounce or any dryer sheet,

> >      instantly making

> >      your dog smell springtime fresh.

> >

> >      Eliminate ear mites….All it takes is a few drops of wesson corn

> >      oil in your

> >      cat’s ear. Massage it in, then clean with a cotton ball. Repeat

> >      daily for 3

> >      days. The oil soothes the cat’s skin, smothers the mites, and

> >      accelerates healing.

> >

> >      Vaseline cure for hairballs…..To prevent troublesome hairballs,

> >      apply a

> >      dollop of vaseline petroleum jelly to your cat’s nose. The cat

> >      will lick off

> >      the jelly, lubricating any hair in its stomach so it can pass easi

> >      ly through the digestive system.

> >

— to improve your memory – only fair:

Keeping your memory sharp
•  When you meet someone, imagine the person’s name written on his or her forehead, says Fred Chernow, author of “The Sharper Mind.” This way, you hear the name as well as see it, doubling the likelihood that you’ll remember it.
•  Talk aloud when you put down your keys or glasses, for instance, and want to remember the location. Tell yourself exactly where you put them. Later, you’ll remember hearing your voice.
•  Exercise your brain at what would otherwise be idle moments. Memorize the license plates of surrounding cars when stuck in traffic. Or start at 100 and count back by 7.
•  Vary your mental workout. Unfamiliar situations and challenges stimulate the brain. Try tying your shoe laces or brushing your teeth with your left hand if you’re right-handed.
•  Actively observe what you want to learn. Create a mental snapshot of the information that you wish to remember, adding details to give this image personal meaning. Link your mental snapshots together.
•  Minimize stress to maximize memory: Prepare ahead, balance work and leisure, set realistic expectations and take relaxation breaks at regular intervals.
•  Stimulate your brain to keep it fit: Do crosswords and other kinds of puzzles, read or challenge yourself intellectually.
•  Start a healthful brain diet: Drink six glasses of water each day, eat low-fat foods and plenty of fruits and vegetables, avoid fried foods and take the vitamins E and C. If you smoke, quit. If you drink alcohol, do so in moderation.

/nureyev learned he had to initiate.  

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`/Rumsfeld’s Rules 
Advice on government, business and life.
By Donald Rumsfeld

The Wall Street Journal, Monday, January 29, 2001 

Many of these rules, reflections and quotations came from my role as chairman of the “transition team” for President Ford and my service as White House chief of staff. Others came from experiences as a U.S. naval aviator, a member of Congress, ambassador to the North Atlantic Treaty Organization, secretary of defense, presidential Middle East envoy, business executive, chairman of the U.S. Ballistic Missile Threat Commission, and other experiences.

These reflections and quotations have been gathered over the past 40 years. Credit is given where known. As the quotation has it, “If it’s not true, it’s still well founded.” — Unknown

Serving in the White House
(for the White House chief of staff and senior staff) 

• Don’t accept the post or stay unless you have an understanding with the president that you’re free to tell him what you think “with the bark off” and you have the courage to do it.
• Visit with your predecessors from previous administrations. They know the ropes and can help you see around some corners. Try to make original mistakes, rather than needlessly repeating theirs.
• Don’t begin to think you’re the president. You’re not. The Constitution provides for only one.
• In the execution of presidential decisions work to be true to his views, in fact and tone.
• Know that the immediate staff and others in the administration will assume that your manner, tone and tempo reflect the president’s.
• Learn to say “I don’t know.” If used when appropriate, it will be often.
• If you foul up, tell the president and correct it fast. Delay only compounds mistakes.
• Walk around. If you are invisible, the mystique of the president’s office may perpetuate inaccurate impressions about you or the president, to his detriment. After all, you may not be as bad as they’re saying.
• In our system leadership is by consent, not command. To lead, a president must persuade. Personal contacts and experiences help shape his thinking. They can be critical to his persuasiveness and thus to his leadership.
• Be precise. A lack of precision is dangerous when the margin of error is small.
• Preserve the president’s options. He may need them.
• It is easier to get into something than to get out of it.
• Don’t divide the world into “them” and “us.” Avoid infatuation with or resentment of the press, the Congress, rivals, or opponents. Accept them as facts. They have their jobs and you have yours.
• Amid all the clutter, beyond all the obstacles, aside from all the static, are the goals set. Put your head down, do the best job possible, let the flak pass, and work toward those goals.
• Don’t say “the White House wants.” Buildings can’t want.
• Leave the president’s family business to him. You will have plenty to do without trying to manage the first family. They are likely to do fine without your help.
• Make decisions about the president’s personal security. He can overrule you, but don’t ask him to be the one to counsel caution.
• Being vice president is difficult. Don’t make it tougher.
• Don’t automatically obey presidential directives if you disagree or if you suspect he hasn’t considered key aspects of the issue.
• The price of being close to the president is delivering bad news. You fail him if you don’t tell him the truth. Others won’t do it.
• You and the White House staff must be and be seen to be above suspicion. Set the right example.
• The role of White House chief of staff is that of a “javelin catcher.” — Jack Watson
• Don’t speak ill of your predecessors or successors. You didn’t walk in their shoes.
• Remember the public trust. Strive to preserve and enhance the integrity of the office of the presidency. Pledge to leave it stronger than when you came.
• Don’t blame the boss. He has enough problems.

Keeping Your Bearings in the White House 

• Enjoy your time in public service. It may well be one of the most interesting and challenging times of your life.
• Don’t think of yourself as indispensable or infallible. As Charles de Gaulle said, the cemeteries of the world are full of indispensable men.
• Let your family, staff and friends know that you’re still the same person, despite all the publicity and notoriety that accompanies your position.
• Have a deputy and develop a successor. Don’t be consumed by the job or you’ll risk losing your balance. Keep your mooring lines to the outside world — family, friends, neighbors, people out of government and people who may not agree with you.
• When asked for your views, by the press or others, remember that what they really want to know is the president’s views.
• Most of the 50 or so invitations you receive each week come from people inviting the president’s chief of staff, not you. If you doubt that, ask your predecessor how many he received last week.
• Keep your sense of humor. As Gen. Joe Stillwell said, “The higher a monkey climbs, the more you see of his behind.”
• Be yourself. Follow your instincts. Success depends, at least in part, on the ability to “carry it off.”
• Know that the amount of criticism you receive may correlate somewhat to the amount of publicity you receive.
• If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much.
• From where you sit, the White House may look as untidy as the inside of a stomach. As is said of the legislative process, sausage making and policy making shouldn’t be seen close-up. Don’t let that panic you. Things may be going better than they look from the inside.
• Be able to resign. It will improve your value to the president and do wonders for your performance.
• If you are lost — “climb, conserve, and confess.” — U.S. Navy SNJ Flight Manual

Doing the Job in the White House

• Your performance depends on your people. Select the best, train them, and back them. When errors occur, give sharper guidance. If errors persist or if the fit feels wrong, help them move on. The country cannot afford amateur hour in the White House.
• You will launch many projects but have time to finish only a few. So think, plan, develop, launch and tap good people to be responsible. Give them authority and hold them accountable. Trying to do too much yourself creates a bottleneck.
• Think ahead. Don’t let day-to-day operations drive out planning.
• Plan backward as well as forward. Set objectives and trace back to see how to achieve them. You may find that no path can get you there. Plan forward to see where your steps will take you, which may not be clear or intuitive.
• Don’t “overcontrol” like a novice pilot. Stay loose enough from the flow that you can observe, calibrate and refine.
• A president needs multiple sources of information. Avoid excessively restricting the flow of paper, people, or ideas to the president, though you must watch his time. If you overcontrol, it will be your “regulator” that controls, not his. Only by opening the spigot fairly wide, risking that some of his time may be wasted, can his “regulator” take control.
• If in doubt, move decisions up to the president.
• When you raise issues with the president, try to come away with both that decision and also a precedent. Pose issues so as to evoke broader policy guidance. This can help to answer a range of similar issues likely to arise later.
• See that the president, the cabinet and the staff are informed. If cut out of the information flow, their decisions may be poor, not made, or not confidently or persuasively implemented.
• Don’t allow people to be excluded from a meeting or denied an opportunity to express their views because their views differ from the president’s views, the views of person who calls the meeting, or your views. The staff system must have integrity and discipline.
• When the president is faced with a decision, be sure he has the recommendations of all appropriate people, or that he realizes he does not have their views and is willing to accept the consequence. They will be out of sync, unhappy and less effective if they feel they are or are seen as having been “cut out.”
• Don’t be a bottleneck. If a matter is not a decision for the president or you, delegate it. Force responsibility down and out. Find problem areas, add structure, and delegate. The pressure is to do the reverse. Resist it.
• If the staff lacks policy guidance against which to test decisions, their decisions will be random.
• One of your tasks is to separate the “personal” from the “substantive.” The two can become confused, especially if someone rubs the president wrong.
• Test ideas in the marketplace. You learn from hearing a range of perspectives. Consultation helps engender the support decisions need to be successfully implemented.
• If a prospective presidential approach can’t be explained clearly enough to be understood well, it probably hasn’t been thought through well enough. If not well understood by the American people, it probably won’t “sail” anyway. Send it back for further thought.
• Many people around the president have sizeable egos before entering government, some with good reason. Their new positions will do little to moderate their egos.
• Move decisions out to the cabinet and agencies. Strengthen them by moving responsibility, authority and accountability their direction.
• Control your time. If you’re working off your in-box, you’re working off the priorities of others. Be sure the staff is working on what you move to them from the president, or the president will be reacting, not leading.
• Look for what’s missing. Many advisers can tell a president how to improve what’s proposed or what’s gone amiss. Few are able to see what isn’t there.
• Think of dealing with Congress as a “revolving door.” You’ll be back to today’s opponents for their help tomorrow. Presidential proposals will need a member of Congress’s support on some issue, at some time, regardless of philosophy, party or their positions on other issues. Don’t allow White House links to members to be cut because they may disagree on some or even many issues.
• Work continuously to trim the White House staff from your first day to your last. All the pressures are to the contrary.
• Don’t do or say things you would not like to see on the front page of the Washington Post.

Serving in Government

• Public servants are paid to serve the American people. Do it well.
• Congress, the press and the bureaucracy too often focus on how much money or effort is spent, rather than whether the money or effort actually achieves the announced goal.
• It is very difficult to spend “federal (the taxpayers’) dollars” so that the intended result is achieved.
• Beware when any idea is promoted primarily because it is “bold, exciting, innovative and new.” There are many ideas that are “bold, exciting, innovative and new,” but also foolish.
• The federal government should be the last resort, not the first. Ask if a potential program is truly a federal responsibility or whether it can better be handled privately, by voluntary organizations, or by local or state governments.
• As former Rep. Tom Curtis of Missouri said, “Public money drives out private money.”
• Strive to make proposed solutions as self-executing as possible. As the degree of discretion increases, so too do bureaucracy, delay and expense.
• Presidential leadership needn’t always cost money. Look for low- and no-cost options. They can be surprisingly effective.
• Include others. As former Sen. Pat Moynihan (D., N.Y.) said, “Stubborn opposition to proposals often has no other basis than the complaining question, ‘Why wasn’t I consulted?’ ”
• Watch for the “not invented here” syndrome.
• “The atmosphere in which social legislation is considered is not a friend of truth.” — Pat Moynihan
• If in doubt, don’t.
• If still in doubt, do what’s right.
• Treat each federal dollar as if it was hard earned. It was — by a taxpayer.
• “Try to analyze situations intelligently, anticipate problems and move swiftly to solve them. However, when you’re up to your ears in alligators, it is difficult to remember that the reason you’re there is to drain the swamp.” — Unknown
• “In Washington, D.C., the size of a farewell party may be directly proportional to the honoree’s new position and their prospective ability to dispense largess.” — D.G. Cross
• “Every government looking at the actions of another government and trying to explain them always exaggerates rationality and conspiracy, and underestimates incompetency and fortuity.” — Silberman’s Law of Diplomacy, U.S. Circuit Court Judge Laurence Silberman

Politics, Congress and the Press

• First rule of politics: you can’t win unless you’re on the ballot.
• Second rule: If you run, you may lose.
• And if you tie, you do not win.
• Politics is human beings; it’s addition rather than subtraction.
• “The winner is not always the swiftest, surest or smartest. It’s the one willing to get up at 5 a.m. and go to the plant gate to meet the workers.” — Unknown
• In politics, every day is filled with numerous opportunities for serious error.  Enjoy it.
• The most underestimated risk for a politician is overexposure.
• When someone with a rural accent says, “I don’t know much about politics,” zip up your pockets.
• If you try to please everybody, somebody’s not going to like it.
• Don’t necessarily avoid sharp edges. Occasionally they are necessary to leadership.
• “The oil can is mightier than the sword.” — former Sen. Everett Dirksen (R., Ill.)
• Arguments of convenience lack integrity and inevitably trip you up.
• Remember where you came from.
• Members of the House and the Senate are not there by accident. Each managed to get there for some reason. Learn what it was and you will know something important about them, about our country and about the American people.
• With the press there is no “off the record.”
• “There are only three responses to questions from the press: (1) ‘I know and will tell you’; (2) ‘I know and I can’t tell you’; and (3) ‘I don’t know.’ ” — Dan Rather

For the Secretary of Defense 

• The secretary of defense is not a super general or admiral. His task is to exercise civilian control over the department for the commander in chief and the country.
• Reserve the right to get into anything, and exercise it. Make your deputies and staff realize that, although many responsibilities are delegated, no one should be surprised when the secretary engages an important issue.
• Manage the interaction between the Pentagon and the White House. Unless you establish a narrow channel for the flow of information and “tasking” back and forth, the process can quickly become chaotic.
• Normal management techniques may not work in the department. When pushing responsibility downward, be sure not to contribute to a weakening of the cohesion of the services; what cohesion exists has been painfully achieved over the decades.
• When cutting staff at the Pentagon, don’t eliminate the thin layer that assures civilian control.
• Avoid public spats. When a department argues with other government agencies in the press, it reduces the president’s options.
• Establish good relations between the departments of Defense and State, the National Security Council, CIA and the Office of Management and Budget.
• Be sure key U.S. ambassadors are informed on defense activities in their countries.
• Develop a personal relationship with the chairman and each of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. They are almost always outstanding public servants. In time of crisis, those relationships can be vital.
• “If you get the objectives right, a lieutenant can write the strategy.” — Gen. George Marshall
• Napoleon was asked, “Who do you consider to be the greatest generals?” He responded, “The victors.”

On Business

• When you initiate new activities, find things you are currently doing that you can discontinue — whether reports, activities, etc. It works, but you must force yourself to do it. Always keep in mind your “teeth-to-tail ratio.”
• Watch the growth of middle-level management. Don’t automatically fill vacant jobs. Leave some positions unfilled for six to eight months to see what happens. You will find you won’t need to fill some of them.
• Reduce the layers of management. They put distance between the top of an organization and the customers.
• Find ways to decentralize. Move decision-making authority down and out. Encourage a more entrepreneurial approach.
• Prune — prune businesses, products, activities, people. Do it annually.
• Know your customers!
• Develop a few key themes and stick to them. It works. Repetition is necessary. “Quality.” “Customers.” “Innovation.” “Service.” Whatever!
• That which you require be reported on to you will improve, if you are selective. How you fashion your reporting system announces your priorities and sets the institution’s priorities.
• People do better in staff jobs if they have had operational experience. It helps to look at things from others’ perspectives.
• Reduce the number of lawyers. They are like beavers — they get in the middle of the stream and dam it up.
• Beware of the argument that “this is a period for investment; improvements will come in the out years.” The tension between the short term and long term can be constructive, but there is no long term without a short term.
• Too often management recommends plans that look like Bob Hope’s nose or a hockey stick. The numbers go down the first year or so and then up in the later years. If you accept hockey-stick plans, you will find they will be proposed year after year.
• Don’t let the complexity of a large company mask the need for performance. Bureaucracy is a conspiracy to bring down the big. And it can. You may need to be large to compete in the world stage, but you need to find ways to avoid allowing that size to mask poor performance.
•  “No plan survives contact with the enemy.” — Old military axiom
• Remember: A’s hire A’s and B’s hire C’s.
•  “The advantage of a free market is that it allows millions of decision-makers to respond individually to freely determined prices, allocating resources — labor, capital and human ingenuity — in a manner that can’t be mimicked by a central plan, however brilliant the central planner.” — Friedrich A. Hayek

On Life (and Other Things) 

• “You can’t pray a lie.” — Mark Twain, “Huckleberry Finn”
•  “The most important things in life you cannot see — civility, justice, courage, peace.” — Unknown
•  “Persuasion is a two-edged sword — reason and emotion — plunge it deep.” — Prof. Lewis Sarett Sr.
•  “The art of listening is indispensable for the right use of the mind. It is also the most gracious, the most open and the most generous of human habits.” — Attributed to R. Barr, St. John’s College, Annapolis, Md.
• “In writing if it takes over 30 minutes to write the first two paragraphs select another subject.” — Raymond Aron
• “In unanimity there may well be either cowardice or uncritical thinking.” — Unknown
• “If you’re coasting, you’re going downhill.” — L.W. Pierson
• “What’s the difference between a good naval officer and a great one? Answer: About six seconds.” — Adm. Arleigh Burke
• “First law of holes: If you get in one, stop digging.” — Anonymous
• “Behold the turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out.” — James B. Conant
• “When drinking the water, don’t forget those who dug the well.” — Chinese proverb
• “The harder I work, the luckier I am.” — Unknown
• “If it doesn’t go easy, force it.” — G.D. Rumsfeld’s assessment of his son Don’s operating principle at age 10
•  “You learn in life there are few plateaus; you are either going up or down.” — Unknown
• Perspective — Maurice Chevalier’s response when asked how it felt to reach 80: “Pretty good, considering the alternative.”
•  “For every human problem there is a solution that is simple, neat and wrong.” — H.L. Mencken
• Simply because a problem is shown to exist doesn’t necessarily follow that there is a solution.
• “If a problem has no solution, it may not be a problem, but a fact, not to be solved, but to be coped with over time.” — Shimon Peres
• “If a problem cannot be solved, enlarge it.” — Dwight D. Eisenhower
•  “Most people spend their time on the ‘urgent’ rather than on the ‘important.’ ” — Robert Hutchins
• “If you think you have things under control, you’re not going fast enough.” — Mario Andretti, racecar driver
• “Victory is never final. Defeat is never fatal. It is courage that counts.” — Winston Churchill
•  “Intellectual capital is the least fungible kind.” — Unknown
• “The better part of one’s life consists of friendship.” — Abraham Lincoln
•  “When you’re skiing, if you’re not falling you’re not trying.” — Donald Rumsfeld
•  “The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald
•  “It is seldom that liberty of any kind is lost all at once.” — David Hume
•  “History marches to the drum of a clear idea.” — W.H. Auden
•  “Demographics is destiny.” — John Scanlon
• If you develop rules, never have more than 10.

Mr. Rumsfeld is secretary of defense. 

/search most influential books, most important, ideas

/subscribe to bottom line secrets – http://www.bottomlinesecrets.com   NOT secure  – trying to be cute.  Do they have a list?  /bottom line ticking me off as too sensationalistic [national inquirer] and too many games – gave up trying to find some ‘perfect cure’ to heart disease.   Date?  

/so many things go wrong in life, you just try to keep ahead of em.

/long walks or physical work – clean up the house, garden, clean and wax your car, actually better than long walks as accomplishment,

/see health for scoring chance of heart problems.  On ga site?

/great men often outgrow their old friends

/lessons in life: hang in, never full closure, but resolution of one point after another and thus? Benefits.

-/when you have a huge problem:  1  you’re very much alone.  2  some people help, many won’t , some try to, but make it worse.  3  the legal system can be a joke.   4  by the time you get justice via the legal system, it may not be worth the effort.   fix

/take your time – can stumble across great stuff – atomic clock.

-/main thing bout big problem with family is how alone you are when you have a problem.  few  people will empathize and they can’t help beyond that.

/search   best advice [sites]  guidelines, tips

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/dear abby’s ency didn’t do well?

/search   expert advice,  ask the experts,

/title   how to book, site.  Buy the name  www.thehowtosite.com   – doesn’t come up.

/ claflin    949  260 8493

/bottom line’s approach reminds me of tabloids

/up the org

/tom peters – in search of excellence?

/try to get google to set up site.

/la times had ‘the safety zone’ – good tips.  Not on net.  And I have a supplement of theirs called ..

–  Raising production

/Best job hunting sites, boost your salary  www.usnews.com   to ‘news you can use,’ to ‘work.’

-raten

`/ Business

/later:  incentive compensation

Incentive system for lowering health costs.  

Summex Corp, in Indianapolis, designs programs to do this.  Such programs exist at:

– Quaker Oats Co. in Chicago

– The Wellness Challenge, Providence General Medical Center, in Everett, Wash.

– Oxford Health Plans Inc. of Norwalk, Conn  

– PacifiCare Health Systems Inc., Santa Ana, Calif.

  [from L.A. Times  6/98]

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/always make time for planning for slowness, avoiding mistakes, vision, projects,

/take charge of your health. Doctors are not in charge of your health — you are.

/you can never completely forget bad and good things, …..

/ change LL to renting rms

Plan  – all I should ever get involved in at this age is to cr part – getting my writing on some good sites – like farmers, fidel,.  To try to set up any site or program is doomed.   I have a hist of that: b&c, p, ga,   google,

/search tip sheets- brot  0

Gal8

Similar sites to link to, use, etc   see sites?

/bbb      http://www.couns.msu.edu 

-/see sites?

/job bank

Best advice sites

/mh – but dizzy – http://inst.santafe.cc.fl.us/~mwehr/X1-19MenH.htm

List of the top 12 steps, recovery, and self-help sites. Information on Alcoholics
Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, Alanon to aid those seeking recovery and …

`/work – monster.com   dup?

/did most of yahoo’s self-help sites

/   www.ehow.com   – no index.

/hm improve – http://bobvila.com  – http://www.bobvila.com/HowTo_Library  -looked like org but then fzzzzz

/amazing lack of org.

/performance incentive system:  – performance incentive system .   

`/   incentive systems – Search 

/0    – http://www.pipworks.com/EmpResources/EmpForm.htm 

/wisdom of ages – $ – http://www.quotations.com/wisdom.htm  = junk?

/search lists, categories, index of sites, websites – I-net yellow pages.  ]

/searched  advice site[s], how-to site[s], how to,

/try:  advice, top sites, best sites, tips,,

/make it ir,

pacs of sites, packages of sites, collections of sites, main pts

/shrinkage on the net [to get you off my back]

– shrink-link  www.westnet.com/shrink    – pro shrinks offer advice for $20 a pop.

– Leonard holmes  www.psychology.com/homes.htm   $l.50/min.

– psychnet  www.apa.org   the am psych assoc – downloadable info.

Trying those from india

– self help and psych.. mag..  offers articles:

others

– www.psychology.com     psych journals, etc.

/funda.. anony – 0     l2 step ….  Ended in ’92 – fundamentalists anonymous website

Seek rr’s son’s grp

/ad on hm repairs  http://repairclinic.com   – too tech

/vote-smart

/ How To Choose The Right Travel Agent

©GlobalRPh. How–to Guides. … How to do just about anything. www.globalrph.com/start/howto.htm – 3k – Cached – Similar pages

FedLaw – How-to Legal-related Sites  – so so www.thecre.com/fedlaw/legal92.htm – 6k – Oct 2, 2004 – Cached – Similar pages

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/hm repair – http://doityourself.com –  super slow, no org yet

/how to deal with ss – http://www.ssa.gov/howto.htm 

/0   top l00 sites [in terms of ……?] – http://www.web100.com :

Categories   Arts and Entertainment   Business and Commerce   Computers and the Net    Education and Reference    Government and Politics   Health and Medicine   News and Information  Sports and Leisure  Science and Technology  Other  but something missing here.

/start this and use it

/hire whom? Highly soph Indians?  Guidelines.

/who would I link to, work with, hope to cont… my work –

                             categories

 /leaving out    entertainment , recreation, travel

/media

/misc: mil?, what’s needed – graphs.  Bias, ‘life’

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/townhall’s ad on pol jobs – have to sign in?

/depression tests – http://depression.about.com/cs/diagnosis/l/bldepscreenquiz.htm 

/search advice to the young, youth, best advice,

/skip http://jonathanpond.com   

/ Tim clark?  

/sites   how to sites, advice, ratings, tanks, graphs, histo.

/search best advice

/http://www.selfgrowth.com  – potential?   Hard to tell;

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Yahoo answers,  answers.com,  answerbag,  wilianswers ,   best answer,

/ www.rd.com  = rd   very disappointing .    search ‘advice’

/the big idea with donny deutsch  probably had guidelines – couldn’t find em.

/kathy gerrard:   everyone has some wonderful stories.

/potential – http://ezinearticles.com/?Lessons-From-The-Dog-Whisperer&id=658708 

/dr. phil   must have lists.   His site had bits on this and that

/trumph said you can if you have the talent.  

/since unclear bout go litely,  I got no nourishment since l pm.   Woozy, weak.  Worse if you’re one who has to keep things in stomach

/zillon details

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rich_Dad,_Poor_Dad     got some bad reviews  [so they guy could be a nut]      /martha stewart?

/don’t let circumstances define you        sean p diddy comes.   

/psych insights:    like dumping on your friend or shoes …   , keeping you beneath em

/think and grow rich by napoleon hill

/people lst, money 2^nd, things 3^rd  said Susie orman.  Find her principles.  couldn’t find her site.  Odd

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0 –  http://www.wikihow.com/Main-Page  – looked bad in past, better now?

0 –  www.ehow.com     signed up, confusion as  it took me to:

0 –  www.wehow.com   – how to p  off your girlfriend.    I’m now a member.   Sent   aged2, job, bkk6

Member.Service@weHow.com   their site & categories are @@@@@.     Ty   ty discouraging, burnt out, so quit.  

How to:  job, save, rent, age, calculators, make friends, weight, find an inexpensive facelift.

/search timeless advice vs contemporary, current

/my essays must have advice in em.   save

/referrals work both ways:  good drs don’t want good patients

/search best advice on aging,   job, …

/no one tell you enuff about anything ahead of time pos or neg:  real weather back east, ear muffs, premarital,

/ http://www.idealab.com  – helps start ups .    & venture cap?    0

/didn’t work – http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=SNYI,SNYI:2005-17,SNYI:en&q=most+popular+advice+sites 

/   http://www.teenshope.com  – religion

-/world best websites     

/ 0  –  http://www.howstuffworks.com     

/someone needs to check to see if sites are working.  Same with 800 nos of the sites that work.

/need to make subdivisions distinctly different from each other.

/gotta be dates on all

/microloans  – kiva – charity

/on google I clicked  ‘search blogs’  for advice …. And got these & other good stuff.   [later search the web

• Create an email alert for advice 
• Add a blog search gadget for advice to your Google homepage 
• Subscribe to a blog search feed for advice in Google Reader ^Ne

/search about.com  for ga    advice.com  is taken, ga too

/skip   http://re.search.wikia.com/search#advice   –  then try advice sites

/where does parade get its suff

/advicesite  adviceblog

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/ put this on saven   Saving gasoline:   Only buy or fill up your car or truck in the early morning when the ground
temperature is still co ld. Remember that all service stations have their
storage tanks buried below ground. The colder the ground the more dense the
gasoline, when it gets warmer gasoline expands, so buying in the afternoon
or in the evening….your gallon is not exactly a gallon. In the petroleum
business, the specific gravity and the temperature of the gasoline, diesel
and jet fuel, ethanol and other petroleum products plays an important role.

A 1-degree rise in temperature is a big deal for this business. But the
service stations do not have temperature compensation at the pumps.
 
When you’re filling up do not squeeze the trigger of the nozzle to a fast
mode. If you look you will see that the trigger has three (3)stages: low,
middle, and high. In slow mode you should be pumping on low speed, thereby
minimizing the vapors that are creat ed while you are pumping. All hoses at
the pump have a vapor return. If you are pumping on the fast rate, some
other liquid that goes to your tank becomes vapor. Those vapors are being
sucked up and back into the underground storage tank so you’re getting less
worth for your money. 
One of the most important tips is to fill up when your gas tank is HALF FULL
or HALF EMPTY. The reason for this is, the more gas you have in your tank
the less air occupying its empty space. Gasoline evaporates faster than you
can imagine. Gasoline storage tanks have an internal floating roof. This
roof serves as zero clearance between the gas and the atmosphere, so it
minimizes the evaporation. Unlike service stations, here where I work, every
truck that we load is temperature compensated so that every gallon is
actually the exact amount. 

Another reminder, if there is a gasoline truck pumping into the storage
tanks when you stop to buy gas, DO NOT fill up–most likely the gasoline is
being stirred up as the gas is being delivered, and you might pick up some
of the dirt that normally settles on the bottom.  Hope this will help you
get the most value for your money.

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/some $ mng course a guy took at a c.

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/To boost energy.      Is this on ga?   No, in fact all of ‘health’ is shot

   By  Kenneth cooper      date

1. Eat less but more frequently. Consuming large meals (more than 1,000 calories per sitting) makes you feel sluggish because your body’s resources are directed toward digesting all that food.

Instead, graze on small meals and snacks that contain a mix of carbohydrates and protein (but little fat) to provide a steady stream of fuel. Examples: Yogurt smoothie (one cup light nonfat yogurt, one-half cup fat-free milk, one-half peach, blended)… peanut butter and banana sandwich (one slice whole-wheat bread, one-half tablespoon peanut butter, one-half banana, sliced)… fruity cottage cheese (one-half cup 1% low-fat cottage cheese, one-half cup pineapple chunks in juice, drained).

3. Take a multivitamin. In a clinical trial, people who took multivitamins daily not only had improved immunity against infectious diseases but also had more energy. In general, it is best to get vitamins from food, but many people don’t get the necessary amounts, so I suggest taking a multivitamin/mineral supplement daily.

4. Prevent dehydration. Consuming an inadequate amount of fluids, particularly if it’s hot outside or you’re exercising, can deplete energy and lead to weakness, dizziness and headaches. Drink at least six to eight eight-ounce glasses of water daily. On days that you exert yourself to the point of perspiring, increase that to up to 13 glasses.

5. Watch what you drink. Drink no more than one caffeinated beverage a day. Coffee, tea, cola and other caffeinated beverages provide a temporary energy boost, but energy levels plunge when the stimulant’s effects wear off.

Caffeinated drinks also have a diuretic effect, which may cause you to lose fluids because you urinate more frequently.

Also, limit alcohol consumption to no more than one drink a day — any more can lead to fatigue.

6. Practice the “relaxation response.” This technique, developed by Herbert Benson, MD, of Harvard University, has been shown to reduce blood pressure and heart rate. For me, doing this for just five minutes in the middle of the day is rejuvenating.

How to do it: Sit in a chair in a quiet room. Close your eyes. Starting with your feet, begin to relax your muscles, progressively moving up the body to the top of the head. While you do this, breathe in slowly and naturally through your nose and out through your mouth. As you exhale, silently repeat a focus word or phrase that has meaning for you, such as “peace.” Push away distracting thoughts by focusing on your breathing and the word you have chosen to repeat.

For more information, read The Relaxation Response by Herbert Benson, MD (HarperTorch).

8. Don’t immerse yourself in bad news. The glut of negative information coming our way from TV, radio, newspapers, the Internet, etc. can hurt the psyche, causing stress and fatigue. Reduce the amount of time you spend watching, listening to or reading the news, and focus on things that bring you joy.

9. Be social. Studies show that isolation can lead to depression and early death. We gain energy by being with others (both humans and animals). Make time for family, friends and pets.

10. Explore your creativity. Boredom leads to a lack of motivation and energy. Finding a creative outlet that absorbs you is invigorating. Developing your creativity also teaches you new skills… challenges your brain… and leads to the release of endorphins, feel-good brain chemicals. Take up a new hobby… learn a musical instrument… take on an unusual project at work. Added benefit: Mentally stimulating activities can lower your risk of Alzheimer’s disease.

12. Think young. To a large extent, your mindset dictates how much energy you have as you age. If you expect the worst, you’re likely to feel tired and unwell. If you expect to stay vital, you’ll fight off disease that can sap energy and well-being — and you’ll add years to your life.

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/rick steves

/tons of flo charts but none appeared practical

/forward your lists of advice or leads to them

Self-Help       

/Stuff That Works

/how stuff works

beat the game – finding good drs.  being totally organized before you see them, recording important parts if nec. Keep good notes, keep on top of it,

/when things are bad, like in the guard, they can work for you as much as against you.

/in search of excellence   by tom peters?

/search   the wisdom of cabdrivers

/establish it thru wiki or about.com or ….

/partner:  cr

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/see   life

/see health7  but fonts

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/  www.advice.com  – so so      

/ www.housedetective.com  – 0 ?

/@@   http://www.wisebread.com/top-100-most-popular-personal-finance-blogs  

/how-to sites, all vids?,  like Howcast,-0   eHow, WonderHowTo -0, Instructables, – 0 SuTree, VideoJug and ExpertVillage — most bad so I quit

/outline i might use  http://www.actionoutline.com/screenshot.php?id=mainwindow  – too hard.  I might later go for  + and –

http://www.howtoadvice.com – 0

/ www.thinkrightnow.com – sound you can’t turn off.

/ / http://www.markgoulston.com    was in la times

/ http://www.pfablog.com 

/ http://www.fool.com/calcs/calculators.htm   good.  What about pers finance tab?

0/ Personal Finance Advice – Bridging the gap between saving money and investing

/ so so SavingAdvice.com – A personal finance website that teaches you how to save money. Exclusive money saving articles, discussion boards, tips, fun facts, quizzes…   saved smoking.  Others so so

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/0 Top 12 Web Sites for Health Advice

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/calculators – http://www.moneychimp.com/calculator/compound_interest_calculator.htm 

(for quick access and page turning

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-/ dup?  http://www.tipsguides.com 

/   www.comsumerwatchdog.org   

/anything under my $ file?  

/ these probably fit diff demographics

/craig’s list for help with lists, etc.

/how to beat the game

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/ http://www.refdesk.com/doitself.html   hm repairs?     Also bks at hm dep

/most popular, most visited sites

/quotes  didn’t bring up much

/did handy hints

/useful tips –

/most useful blogs – 0

/most useful tips – 0

/words of wisdom – too much work

/do it yourself

/self-improvement

/best advice

/handbooks in health care – http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&source=hp&q=handbooks+in+healthcare&aq=2&oq=handbooks&aqi=g7 

/useful tips – 0

/tip sheets – more than I expected.    Thus

/ http://kc.vanderbilt.edu/site/services/disabilityservices/tipsheets.aspx   but you lose the part you want, can’t find it, ty

/dog whisperer wore me out.  dr phil even more

/save:  child care center, how to run – http://www.wccip.org/tips.html 

/save – http://www.childwelfare.gov/index.cfm – tangled so far

/fidel?:   credit & debt, real estate, mutual funds, stocks, bonds, taxes, IRA’s . . .’

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consumers report for bks on retirement, mng $, buy hse, cond, co-op, inc tax prep, life insur, settling an estate.

/how to get into pol – heritage

Dup    www.lifeadvice.com   800 metlife x l00

self-help, advice    search them on yahoo

/ike’s  guidelines  – couldn’t find

/tons of recovery things but got boring.   Probably same with l2 step and anony

/one site was multi lingual

/how to stop worrying and start living – http://books.google.com/books?id=yCKmKv99NoIC&dq=how+to&printsec=frontcover&source=bll&ots=8B9AXjpNCp&sig=2CyVslRPAipoppt1hjYG37VIQO4&hl=en&ei=GSqhSvP6CKac8Qbk_bjPCg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=17#v=onepage&q=&f=false 

/zillion entries under how to    stop snoring,   etc.

/fam hack = 0

/fees for sums – www.getabstract.com

/diy = do it yourself

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0 – forbes.com  

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/cyber crime,  net nanny

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http://www.diynetwork.com    clutter, @

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`/Alcohol

Are you an alcoholic           Test from Johns Hopkins   done

-Drinks/hr affects affects driving    [in Calif.]

Divorce

Steps leading to       Readers Digest

Means less contact with kids       Graph

Affects school work                Graph

Na     Lifestyle chart          The Best Years   by Hugh Downs  – not on net

Na    Longevity chart      Readers Digest    not on net

Diet for heart conditions

Cancer prevention diet

Loneliness

Perspective     Ann Landers encyl..

Love

Perspective           Ann Landers encyl..

Pitfalls        Readers Digest

Myths           Readers Digest

Marriage

Compatibility test many on net

Test                  Readers Digest

How vulnerable are you to stress?        Readers Digest

Coping with stress.              Readers Digest

Parenting

Tips for single parents       Parents Without Partners

Shopping

When to buy      Readers Digest

Weather

Windchill

Temperature humidity index

Winning   biz and mil ….

Work

For yourself              Am. Mng. Assoc.

Efficiently       Woman’s Hm Companion

With less fatigue

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`/Napoleon’s Principles of War ///  [can napoleon’s principles of war be applied to business? – Search  yes]

                       Condensed by   Major Mark D Hardison    dup on mil

Objective
Keep your goals clearly in mind. Every act should have the objective as it’s end.

Simplicity
Avoid complicated schemes. The less that “goes”, the less that can go wrong.

Control
One person in charge at each level; and each answers to one above him. (Unity of Command)

Offensive
Control the enemy; force him to attack on your terms.
If you must defend; do so where you chose, make the enemy attack where you want.

Maneuver
Move quickly and precisely.
Your forces need to move faster than your enemy can react, and at his weakest point.

Mass
Concentrate as much power against the objective as possible.

Economy of Forces
Use as little force as possible against non-critical objectives.

Surprise
Keep the enemy off balance, unaware of your next move. Use surprise as a force multiplier.

Security
Keep the enemy unaware of your plans, location, and capability.
Do not allow the enemy to surprise you.   #

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     /- Antibiotic Guide:: Home     looks impractical

/Cr online has e-ratings: website reviews of products – http://www.consumerreports.org/main/detailv3.jsp?CONTENT%3C%3Ecnt_id=863&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=735&bmUID=1096748364541

/0 = PCWorld.com 

/ search useful sites.   

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/800 nos

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/gab k

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Performance incentive …

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/search self-help principles

/the big idea  donny deutsch

/formula for success

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/all I really need to know I leaned in kindergarten    by  robert  fulghum

/search  how to make it,  to succeed

/think and grow rich   by napoleon hill

/reasons for ga blog: I like overview, cut thru theory, frust.. and iq’s, boil down, find how to beat the game, beat it, lay it out for others,  beat the heck out of all the stupid blogs, vindication.   Looseleaf notebook on it.  essence of life, practical,

/sw – independ – thus b & c

/time tested ideas    proven results,  what works,   best

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THINGS YOUR BURGLAR WON’T TELL YOU:

1. Of course I look familiar. I was here just last week cleaning your carpets, painting your shutters, or delivering your new refrigerator.
2. Hey, thanks for letting me use the bathroom when I was working in your yard last week. While I was in there, I unlatched the back window to make my return a little easier.
3. Love those flowers. That tells me you have taste … and taste means there are nice things inside. Those yard toys your kids leave out always make me wonder what type of gaming system they have.
4. Yes, I really do look for newspapers piled up on the driveway. And I might leave a pizza flyer in your front door to see how long it takes you  to remove it.
5. If it snows while you’re out of town, get a neighbor to create car and foot tracks into the house. Virgin drifts in the driveway are a dead giveaway.
6. If decorative glass is part of your front entrance, don’t let your alarm company install the control pad where I can see if it’s set. That makes it too easy.
7. A good security company alarms the window over the sink. And the windows on the second floor, which often access the master bedroom — and your jewelry. It’s not a bad idea to put motion detectors up there too.
8. It’s raining, you’re fumbling with your umbrella, and you forget to lock your door-understandable . But understand this: I don’t take a day  off because of bad weather.
9. I always knock first. If you answer, I’ll ask for directions somewhere or offer to clean your gutters. (Don’t take me up on it.)
10. Do you really think I won’t look in your sock drawer? I always  check dresser drawers, the bedside table, and the medicine cabinet.
11. Here’s a helpful hint: I almost never go into kids’ rooms.
12. You’re right: I won’t have enough time to break into that safe where you keep your valuables. But if it’s not bolted down, I’ll take it with me.
13. A loud TV or radio can be a better deterrent than the best alarm system. If you’re reluctant to leave your TV on while you’re out of town, you can buy a $35 device that works on a timer and simulates the flickering glow of a real television. (Find it at faketv.com <http://faketv. com/> .)

MORE THINGS A BURGLAR WON’T TELL YOU:

1. Sometimes, I carry a clipboard. Sometimes, I dress like a lawn guy and carry a rake. I do my best to never, ever look like a crook.
2. The two things I hate most: loud dogs and nosy neighbors.
3. I’ll break a window to get in, even if it makes a little noise. If your neighbor hears one loud sound, he’ll stop what he’s doing and wait to hear it again. If he doesn’t hear it again, he’ll just go back to what  he was doing. It’s human nature.
4. I’m not complaining, but why would you pay all that money for a fancy alarm system and leave your house without setting it?
5. I love looking in your windows. I’m looking for signs that you’re home, and for flat screen TVs or gaming systems I’d like. I’ll drive or walk through your neighborhood at night, before you close the blinds, just to pick my targets.
6. Avoid announcing your vacation on your Facebook page. It’s easier than you think to look up your address.
7. To you, leaving that window open just a crack during the day is a way to let in a little fresh air. To me, it’s an invitation.
8. If you don’t answer when I knock, I try the door. Occasionally, I  hit the jackpot and walk right in.
9. Don’t put a mourning wreath or some other sign of bereavement on your front door. We check obituaries and funeral times, and if something looks promising we’ll hit during the funeral. Do you really need a double tragedy?

Sources: Convicted burglars in North Carolina , Oregon , California , and Kentucky ; security consultant Chris McGoey, who runs crimedoctor. com <http://crimedoctor. com/> ; and Richard T. Wright, a criminology professor at the University of Missouri-St. Louis, who interviewed 105 burglars for his book Burglars on the Job. 

/ www.webmd.com     dup?

/drop emotion

/jury duty    search how to avoid

/which countries have the least police corruption and why

Sent grief to goofy’s fam and got: Thank you very much I needed to read to read that article. I will share it with the rest of the family. Thanks Mark and Lisa

/30% drop in sick days for workers in exercise program, said an lte in the globe

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1. For cleaning smelly hands after chopping onions or garlic, just rub them on a stainless steel spoon. The steel is supposed to absorb the odor.
2. Fresh coffee beans can also absorb nasty odors from your hands.
3. If you happen to over-salt a pot of soup, just drop in a peeled potato. The potato will absorb the excess salt.
4. When boiling eggs, add a pinch of salt to keep the shells from cracking.
5. Never put citrus fruits or tomatoes in the fridge. The low temperatures degrade the aroma and flavor.
6. To clean cast iron cook wear, don’t use detergents. Just scrub them with salt and a clean, dry paper towel.
7. Will milk curdle if it is allowed to boil? It turns out that this age-old piece of wisdom isn’t true, after all. Milk that has been boiled is perfectly safe to consume.
8. To clean an electric kettle with calcium build-up on the heating element, boil a mixture of half white vinegar and half water, then empty.
9. When storing empty airtight containers, throw in a pinch of salt to keep them from getting stinky.
10. If you are making gravy and accidentally burn it, just pour it into a clean pan and continue cooking it. Add sugar a little at a time, tasting as you go to avoid over-sugaring it. The sugar will cancel out the burned taste.
11. Burned a pot of rice? Just place a piece of white bread on top of the rice for 5-10 minutes to draw out the burned flavour. Be careful not to scrape the burned pieces off of the bottom of the pan when serving the rice.
12. Before you chop chilli peppers, rub a little vegetable oil into your hands and your skin won’t absorb the spicy chilli oil.
13. If you aren’t sure how fresh your eggs are, place them in about four inches of water. Eggs that stay on the bottom are fresh. If only one end tips up, the egg is less fresh and should be used soon. If it floats, it’s past the fresh stage.
14. To banish ants from the kitchen, find out where they are coming in and cover the hole with petroleum jelly. Ants won’t trek through the jelly. If they are coming under a door, draw a line on the floor with chalk. The little bugs also won’t cross a line of chalk.
15. Before making popcorn on the stove or in an air popper, soak the kernels in water for 10 minutes. Drain the water, then pop as normal. The additional moisture helps the popcorn pop up quicker and fluffier with fewer old maids.
16. Don’t store your bananas in a bunch or in a fruit bowl with other fruits. Separate your bananas and place each in a different location. Bananas release gases which cause fruits (including other bananas) to ripen quickly. Separating them will keep them fresh longer.
17. To keep potatoes from budding in the bag, put an apple in with them.
18. If you manage to have some leftover wine at the end of the evening, freeze it in ice cube trays for easy addition to soups and sauces in the future.
19. To clean crevices and corners in vases and pitchers, fill with water and drop in two Alka-Seltzer tablets. The bubbles will do the scrubbing.
20.  After boiling pasta or potatoes, cool the water and use it to water your house plants. The water contains nutrients that your plants will love.
21. When you clean your fish tank, the water you drain can also be used to water your house plants. The nitrogen and phosphorus in fish droppings make aquarium water a great fertilizer.
22. When defrosting meat from the freezer, pour some vinegar over it. Not only does it tenderize the meat; it will also bring down the freezing temperature of the meat and cause it to thaw quicker.
23. The substance in onions that causes your eyes to water is located in the root cluster of the onion. Cut this part out in a cone shape, with the largest part of the cone around the exterior root section.
24. Taking the top layer off of an onion can also reduce the amount of eye-watering misery.
25. Toothpaste is a great silver cleaner.
26. Baking soda isn’t as effective a deodorizer for the fridge as that baking soda company would like you to believe. Activated charcoal is much better at absorbing fridge and freezer odours.
27. Baking soda is an extremely effective cleaner, though. Use it with vinegar to deodorize drains and clean stovetops and sinks.
28. A favourite tip of thousands of grandmas: when you nick your finger while cutting veggies, wait until the bleeding stops and paint on a layer of clear nail polish. It will keep juices out of the wound and won’t fall off into the spaghetti sauce like a bandage.
29. The jury is still out on what to put in the bag of brown sugar to keep it from going hard: a slice of apple, a piece of bread, and a shard of a terra cotta pot have all been used.
30. Got a nasty invisible splinter from your kitchen tools? Put a piece of adhesive tape on the area and then pull it off to remove the splinter.
31. When you burn yourself in the kitchen, just spread mustard on the affected area. Leave it for a while and it will ease the pain and prevent blistering.
32. For aluminium pans that are looking dull, just boil some apple peels in them. This will brighten up the aluminium and make your house smell yummy.
33. To keep cookies fresh, savvy grannies like to put some crumpled-up tissue paper in the bottom of the cookie jar.
34. If your salt is clumping up, put a few grains of rice in with it to absorb excess moisture.
35. To clean fruit stains off of your fingers, rub them with a fresh, peeled potato. White vinegar can also do the trick.
36. Keep iceberg lettuce fresh in the fridge by wrapping it in a clean, dry paper towel and storing lettuce and paper towel in a sealed baggie in the fridge.
37. If your loaf of bread is starting to go stale, just put a piece of fresh celery in the bag and close it back up. For some reason, this restores a fresh taste and texture to the bread.
38. Always keep an aloe vera plant in your kitchen. It’s invaluable when you scrape your arm or burn your finger. Just break off a leaf and rub the gel from the inside on the injury.
39. When making a soup, sauce, or casserole that ends up too fatty or greasy, drop in an ice cube. The ice will attract the fat, which you can then scoop out.
40. To reuse cooking oil without tasting whatever was cooked in the oil previously, cook a 1/4 piece of ginger in the oil. It will remove any remaining flavours and odours.
41. If your milk always goes bad before you can finish it, try adding a pinch of salt to the carton when you first open it. It will stay fresh days longer.
42. Water that has been boiled and allowed to cool will freeze faster than water from the tap. This comes in handy when you’re having a party and need ice pronto.
43. Remove tea or coffee stains from your fine china by mixing up a paste of baking soda, lemon juice, and cream of tartar. Rub it over the stains and they’ll come off easily.
44. If two drinking glasses become stuck together after stacking, it’s not impossible to unstick them. Just put ice in the inner glass and dunk the outer glass in warm water. The warm glass will expand and the cold glass will contract, making the glasses separate easily.
45. For splinters under the fingernail, soaking the affected finger in a bowl of milk with a piece of bread in it is said to draw out the splinter.
46. Did grandpa ever give you a drink of cola for an upset tummy? It turns out that this is actually a pretty effective remedy. The sugar and carbonation can soothe many tummy problems – but it can also exacerbate others.
47. Putting salty bacon on a boil is said to draw the poison out of boils.
48. To help old wooden drawers (without runners) open and close smoothly, rub a candle on the tracks.
49. A cotton ball soaked in white vinegar and applied to a fresh bruise will reduce the darkness of the bruise and help it disappear sooner.
50. Drinking cranberry juice and eating blueberries regularly will help stave off urinary tract infections.

LAURA LION

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/if you pray and no help, don’t blame self.  

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http://www.wimp.com/copymachines  

http://www.paidanswers.com/index.aspx   – only for ideas

/see security2,4

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/rotary advice I sent to scot

/http://artofmanliness.com/category/lessons-in-manliness

/  to start a wikiadvice – http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/New_project_policy   which says if in hurry, go to wiki farms ….
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Blogs by Experts Get advice from experts on grief, condolence and funeral etiquette, obituary writing and more. All expert blogs >> Robbie Kapla…
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/ Interactive Graphic: Is It Better to Buy or Rent?

Whether renting is better than buying depends on many factors, including how fast prices rise and how long you will stay in your home. Compare the costs of buying and renting equivalent homes.

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/ www.managemylife.com   

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/ www.angieslist.com   – handymen?

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/search  best advice I ever got

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/fidel has a charitable planning calculator

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WARNING from Shell Oil Company

>>  Mobile phones should not be used, or should be turned off, around other
>> materials that generate flammable or explosive fumes or dust, (I.e.,
>> solvents, chemicals, gases, grain dust, etc…)
>>  Mobile phones should not be used in filling stations, or when fueling
>> lawn mowers, boat, etc.
>>  for Safe Refueling:
>>  1) Turn off engine
>> 2) Don’t smoke
>> 3) Don’t use your cell phone – leave it inside the vehicle or turn it off

>> NEVER get back into your vehicle while filling it
>> with gas.  Most men never get back in their vehicle until completely finished.
>> If you absolutely HAVE to get in your vehicle while the gas is pumping,
>> make sure you get out, close the door TOUCHING THE METAL, before you ever
>> pull the nozzle out. This way the static from your body will be discharged.
/ag: planning is all cause you never know what you didn’t think of – me marrying letty
 /how to cool yourself in hot weather.

/online courses in $ mng – calculators

/dear abby, ann lander – jewish twin sisters?   Eppy friedman, dr. laura Schlesinger, dr. phil

/ad from sp – what class you’re in

/advice to cr types

/  www.stilltasty.com

/    www.angieslist.com  

/spec needs  – grant Hamilton   ev in tacoma

/  http://www.watchknowlearn.org/default.aspx/ 

/lawguru.com

/guide for gays

/search advice to teens on sex.    Sex ed

/ www.factscheck.org  ?

/cr has best websites for buying electronics   ll/ll

/ Stop pre-approved credit card offers by calling   1  888 567  8688

/ http://www.webmd.com/default.htm 

/ this belongs on ga?   real world, not sch, rel, gov [mil], see ed notes, avoid gov – jury   – sch is not the real world.  Interests test must be more important than aptitude tests, as you will be happiest doing what you like.  Gear your courses in school as much as possible to what interests you.  During breaks from sch, get experience in the same.  Expect your interests to change.  Search the net for ways to get academic credit for what you have learned outside school.   See ed and c

/bottom line – http://www.bottomlinesecrets.com/index.html 

/which commercial outfit would back ga – insur?  med?  sig

/office politics

/ http://www.babble.com  – parenting  – Disney bot it.  ll/ll

parentsconnect.com  – coming later   via nickelodeon

/this must be how to buy a new car – http://consumerreports1.zag.com/main.html?referrer_id=ZCRAEM00002 

/social skills – http://www.succeedsocially.com/ 

/ www.truecar.com  

/sanjay gupta   md.   Sensible guy on tv

/answers.com,    about.com,   how to do it?    how to sights.

/need some site for heartbreaks – Nashville, pol, biz,

/griefshare – a support grp sponsored by saddleback church.   Thus biblical teachings

/soc life:  Start with what you have,  build on it.

/ the help owl – a site

/ www.replacementremotes.com 

/ http://www.mastersinschoolcounseling.com/top-50-blogs-by-school-counselors.html 

 Might also try blog counseling, online counseling

/health calculators – http://www.mothersmarket.com/university/health-calculators.html 

/ ehow

/some of the best ad

/money mag has good tips

/ http://www.savingadvice.com/   is only so so.    [has the one on smoking  –http://www.savingadvice.com/tools/calculators/cost_of_smoking.php ]    put it or search for cost of smoking  under health – more.  Also put there heart risk calculators.  

/look for all kinds of calculators   solar, tankless,

/ http://irebuildcredit.com  – so so?

/ http://www.dummies.com   – good  

http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content 

/kiplinger – http://www.kiplinger.com/ 

/guenl8   

/ http://www.consumersearch.com   –  good? a discovery for me?

/handy hints

/$ mag   on line

/ http://whyismarko.com/2010/rites-of-passage/ 

/  hulbert’s digest   

/ http://www.centercrg.com/  – dippy?

/cost of living calculator

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/http://marriage.about.com/cs/engagement/qt/reasons.htm 

reasons to get married.

Wrong Reasons to Get Married

•  to be free from parents.
• sex.
• loneliness.
• To be happy.
• To show you are an adult.
• pregnancy.
• He or she loves you.
• To save or help someone.
• Because you want a baby.
• For money.
• Because all your friends are married.
• You’ve always wanted a fancy wedding.
• the fear that no one else will want to marry you.
• You think you are running out of time to get married.
• For immigration purposes.
• You are tired of being single.
• You don’t want people gossiping about the two of you living together.

Right Reasons to Get Married

• You are in love with one another.
• A desire to share your life with another.
• To have a lifetime companion.
• Realistic expectations.
• Willingness to help one another fulfill their own needs and dreams

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/ http://www.homegardenguides.com  – looks good !

/maturity test

/search  the most sig articles, bks,

/2^nd grp : no empathy when down and jealous when up

/go to your reunion

/bk of lists?

/strokes – http://www.stroke.org/site/DocServer/Scorecard.Q._08.pdf?docID=601 

/empathy test    s98

/ http://www.helpguide.org/index.htm    – looks  good

/office politics,  workplace politics

/you do best when relaxed: elen degeneras, jerry lewis, johnny martin, bing

/clearinghouses,

/   www.realifechange.com  

/Kathy kristof  of la times knows tons of techs to mng money

/need all details to beat game  – spec with the less educated

/ http://www.consumer.gov/ 

/  www.ifixit.com   looks real good.  Team up with em?  

/ www.carmd.com   

/ www.whoknewbooks.com 

/ www.salary.com  

/ Visit the FDA’s recall page to stay informed on the latest product recalls. Everything from recalled food, medical devices, cosmetics, drugs and more, will be listed with a brand name, product description, reason for recall, manufacturer, other details and a photo.You can sign up for alerts via email for recalls, market withdrawals and safety alerts.
fda.gov
http://www.loandepot.com/MortgageCalculators.aspx 

/ stroke preven….  http://www.stroke.org/site/DocServer/Scorecard.Q._08.pdf?docID=601  

/Kalashnikov  read early :  all complex is not useful; all that is useful is simple.

/ http://www.diynetwork.com/ 

/ www.homeadvisor.com 

/all I need to know I learned in kindergarden.

/up the org

/tom peters?

/eisenhower’s rules  rummy’s rules

/ www.yelp.com  rates ……

/ http://news.efinancialcareers.com/143152/growing-up-poor-makes-you-battle-tested-and-other-deep-thoughts-from-lloyd-blankfein/ 

/p5  etc

/http://news.walmart.com/news-archive/2009/02/18/walmart-steps-up-efforts-to-help-americans-mhttp://www.theyummylife.com/anage-their-finances-with-3-rollback-price-on-key-money-service

/http://www.theyummylife.com/ 

/ http://www.survivallife.com/ 

/relax, be yourself, accept yourself, be natural, start with what you have  – fix

/some are good with people; others are good with ideas, things, mech, art, cr, sensitive

/some ir ins co should be int in g.a.

/Donny deutch   the big idea  – he said it’s about getting in out, around, thru people

/ Advice to immigrants

/ http://lifehacker.com/   – sig?  thus

/no advice collage of any worth

/Wikipedia ad for parents led nowhere

/when down: go for long walks, clean your place, get caught up on all, be nicer, more patient

/icons:   rm for rent, ins,

/Donny deutsch :

1. Dare to be different.
2. Don’t be afraid to fail.
3. Be passionate about what you do.
4. Keep getting up when you get knocked down.
5. Help someone if you can.
6. And, finally, don’t worry so much. “If you have passion and resiliency, you’re going to find your way.”

Below are only links to google

/ tips on making out

tips on winning the lottery

tips on getting pregnant

/ tips on saving money     so so

tips on losing weight

tips on running

tips on writing a book

tips on quitting smoking

“Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.”

/guide to the net

/what’s sig in life

/icon  for banner?    How to  – so so

/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:PrefixIndex/Advice  – 0

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`/Old:

American Psychological Association PsychNET (SM)  – gen….

careerWEB – jobs, employment, and careers   –  ok

Center for Substance Abuse Prevention (CSAP)

Hanover College Psychology Department

Online Career Center

Psychology in Daily Life

Psychology Self-Help Resources on the Internet

Self-Help & Psychology Magazine

Women’s Resources on the Web

http://www.helpself.com/directory/selfhelp.htm

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re:  camille’s present site has 4 sites but they won’t click when trans to here.

/Expert Advice, Tips On Saving Energy, Hiring a Contractor, Cost vs. Value, More…

/educational websites     1 is  www.codecademy.com     terrible start

/most influential writings

/eric hoffer’s bk.  Andy rooney’s

/mark twain

/ann landers encyl….

/  www.homeadvisor.com 

/ Best Dental Plans

/need results – by someone else

/search  best advice I ever got.  

/layman’s guide.  Guide for the common man

/put in warning bout reverse mort…

/ maxims

/  http://www.livelifehappy.com/   –  lousy format, but potential?

/ skip   www.goodhousekeeping.com

/    webmd?   www.webmd.com  

/advice of the famous   search

/….

/they can click on infographics for the latest

/sometimes failing is the best thing in life,  said one ….

/ https://hsl.osu.edu/ 

/ www.medibidcom/consumers 

/a mil theories  vs  be yourself

/traits of winners

/ http://www.suntzustrategies.com        stopped here   

I have some on     sun    good.    and sun2        for biz?

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/search  useful guides   hints

/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:PrefixIndex/Advice   @@@

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/Do the same for below – search the links and add each to each

• list of advice for new mom
• list of advice for aging well
• list of advice for senior citizens
• list of advice for college freshmen
• a list of advice for teens a-z

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Skip?  :  Job Search, Companies Hiring Near Me, and Advice | The Muse

1. /Workplace Rules For Business Owners & Employees    – light print

www.bizfilings.com › Business Owner’s Toolkit      so so?

Workplace Rules For Business Owners & Employees. Filed under Office & HR. … small employers are likely to opt for a simple list of rules and guidelines to make it clear to employees what kind of behavior is expected. … Be certain to include a disclaimer saying that the list of work rules is not intended to be an employment contract.

2. Office Etiquette: Complete List of Tips, Rules and Guidelines   skip, not a list

https://content.wisestep.com/office-etiquette-list-tips-rules…

1. Do not carry a casual attitude at work. Being off the cuff for any meetings or projects or even your daily work leaves a bad impression on others. You are paid to work and be the asset for the company, not the liability for your colleagues.
2.  Never Gawk at other employees workstations or computer screens or …

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/ 0 as covered up https://addicted2success.com/quotes/21-inspirational-mark-twain-quotes-to-live-by/ 

“Life has more imagination than we carry in our dreams.” – Christopher Columbus

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/wiki – messed up all the ones for advice that I checked

/risk evaluator – 0

/legal zoom gives legal ad….

/free personality test via scientologists – http://www.scientology.org/oca.html  – have to get results from local sci….     wow

/ Google and bing have similar.  which is simpler or better?

Skip 

    http://sourcesofinsight.com/  – disappointing, but scroll to the bottom

https://addicted2success.com/ –  

/http://www.redcross.org/support/emergency-preparedness

/ disaster checklists

/ fundamentalists anonymous

/atheists ?   later

/ bga  of chicago.

/titles:  layman’s guide  , everyday advice,  advice links for logo only, search = 0

/they told jim nabors to be himself.     Result:  gomer pyle

/toni grant, therapist of the airwaves

/about:  I always wondered what was the best advice for ea stage of life

/ dr peale: so so?  http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/05/30/norman-vincent-peales-top-10-positive-pearls-of-wisdom/ 

/ag:  you make more mistakes when tired, mad, in a hurry, under pressure, in bad weather, when not relaxed, when trying to impress, when compulsive

/heritage f  had tips on entering pol.

/search   best advice I ever got    &  lessons of life

/ Smarter Living: Tips for Daily Life

/ http://www.bing.com/search?q=heritage%20foundation%20guidelines%20on%20entering%20politics&qs=n&form=QBRE&pq=heritage%20foundation%20guidelines&sc=0-30&sp=-1&sk=&cvid=A9CB33FC077143B289BD6BD950D72E17 

/ Copenhagen consensus for resources

/make your difficulties work for you.    Similar to I led 3 lives

/search  life guides   guidelines for living

/there are forms of excitement, enjoyment etc. and you won’t find it till you’re your natural self.

/  self-improvement

/when you think too much, be around kids to see how they enjoy life

/don’t analyze all, enjoy life = be yourself,

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How to make your voice heard in Washington   George Miller and John Lawrence.    Good 7? steps

Since the November elections, we’ve seen unprecedented numbers of Americans speaking out on public policy. Voters want to influence their lawmakers on high-stakes issues from healthcare to climate change, education to immigration, foreign affairs to trade policy. The question, for many, is how…

/What color is your parachute is within the canon of classic American self-improvement literature

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=psycho+cybernetics&FORM=AWRE    round and round

/ www.homeadvisor.com   for handymen?    skip

/  http://homeguides.sfgate.com/    –     

/  www.ask.com 

/napoleon hill,    e clement stone

/http://www.diynetwork.com/   but it got squirrely  

/  / www.wikipedia.advice 

/ https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/10-mobile-apps-that-deliver-advice-and-therapy/ 

/ http://www.abajournal.com/magazine/article/20_apps_providing_easier_access_to_legal_help 

/ea kid is unique, you are too.  rediscover the kid in you.

/ga  mh  apps – https://www.bing.com/search?q=advice+apps&form=EDGSPH&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&refig=e75313a4a98549cb9fd87288f3b4be9a&sp=-1&pq=advice+apps&sc=4-11&qs=n&sk=&cvid=e75313a4a98549cb9fd87288f3b4be9a    thus

There are tons of ways to save these days. Here are some quick pro tips on how.

There are tons of free money management apps out there. But which ones are worth the …

Types: Ways To Save, Making Money Ideas, Coupons, Budgeting Advice, Debt. Help

/avoid gov:  mil, pub hosp, jury, mil, working for gov, dealing with em – oc – 8602, my tel list

/if you don’t pay for the product, you are the product

/disaster – https://bottomline 

/tech, might be boiled down – https://web.archive.org/web/20120321200947/http://www.sapients.net/article/howtogiveafriendadvice/ 

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Advice column[edit]     tried a few – 0

American[edit]

• Amy Alkon (Ask the Advice Goddess)
• Helen Bottel (Helen Help Us!)
• E. Jean Carroll (Ask E. Jean)
• George W. Crane (Worry Clinic, Test Your Horse Sense)
• Alma Denny (“Alma Denny”)
• Amy Dickinson (Ask Amy)
• Elizabeth Meriwether Gilmer (“Dorothy Dix“)
• Carolyn Hax
• Margo Howard (Dear Prudence and Ask Ann Landers)
• Esther Pauline “Eppie” Lederer (Ask Ann Landers)    no checklists
• Marie Manning (Dear Beatrice Fairfax)
• Judith Martin (“Miss Manners”)
• Jeanne Phillips (Dear Abby)
• Pauline Esther “Popo” Phillips (“Abigail Van Buren”, author of Dear Abby)  no chklists
• Dan Savage (Savage Love)
• Jeffrey L. Seglin (The Right Thing)
• Cheryl Strayed (Dear Sugar)
• Cary Tennis (Since You Asked)
• Emily Yoffe (Dear Prudence)

British[edit]

• Katie Boyle
• Cathy Cassidy
• ChildLine‘s “Ask Sam”, a children’s advice column
• Quentin Fottrell
• Suzi Godson, who has written a weekly sex advice column in the Saturday Times since 2004
• Wendy Greengross, agony aunt for The Sun, 1972-76
• Phillip Hodson
• Alex Hooper-Hodson, agony uncle of Sugar, The Daily Record & sex expert on Channel 5’s Sex Pod TV Show
• Virginia Ironside
• Susan Sutherland Isaacs, who worked under the pseudonym “Ursula Wise” in several child care journals
• Marjorie Proops
• Susan Quilliam
• Claire Rayner
• Denise Robertson
• Coleen Nolan
• Deidre Sanders
• David Tang, who writes an advice column for the Financial Times Weekend edition

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www.ElderWisdomCircle.org  – fsssss

/wisdom checklists – images – 0

/manners checklist

/rules for life,   rules of life

– –  –

https://www.talesofsuccess.com/oprah-winfrey-success-tips-23764      and more at bottom

https://www.forbes.com = 0…  

http://www.advicenators.com/   – you can start your own ad col, but have to answer questions that are posted on this site daily.  amateurish?  but makes you wonder if mine could tie in

https://www.elderwisdomcircle.org/   – hard to tell about this.  not much so far

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/do I have this on youth?   Feel-good teaching has created a generation of high school seniors with no concept of reality and set them up for failure.   They don’t know that:   

1. Many parts of life are not fair.
2. The world won’t care about your self-esteem. It will expect you to accomplish something.
3. If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
4. Low-paid work is not ‘menial’, it’s opportunity.
5. If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault.  Don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
6. Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now.  They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to how cool you thought you were.  So before you save the rain forest, try delousing the closet in your room.
7. In some schools, they give you as many times as you want to get the right answer.  This is nothing like real life.
8. Few employers are interested in helping you find yourself.   
9. Be nice to nerds – chances are you’ll be working for one.

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http://ww2history.com 

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/don’t let others define you.

/survival guide

`notable websites

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Top 10 Tips From Dr. Phil About Raising Teens

Tyler Jacobson    January 3, 2016    9 comments    3 min read    If you are in the thick of raising teenagers, you need all the help you can get. Dr. Phil is one great, straight-shooting, no nonsense resource. Here is a round-up of some of his best advice.

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1. Act Like A Parent. Dr. Phil is a constant advocate for being a parent first and foremost. He does not subscribe to the notion our teenagers should be our friends.
2. Take Care of Yourself. Just remember you cannot be what your teen needs if you do not have anything to give them. Go to the gym, take a poetry class, or whatever helps you relax but fill your well so you have the energy and clarity to deal with your troubled teen.
3. Improve Communication. No matter what your teen’s issues, you are never going to go wrong improving communication. Communication will take time and depending on the depth of your teen’s issues, you may not have the luxury of time but try anyway.
4. Seek Help. Sometimes as parents we hold on too tightly. By taking a step back and asking family members, clergy members, or even a trusted friend to offer their perspective can be just what Dr. Phil would order.
5. What’s Causing The Caustic Attitude. Sometimes, taking the time to look for the underlying issues which are contributing to your teen’s behavior helps solve their issues faster. Ask yourself: What happened right before my teen changed?
6. A History Lesson. Take an honest look at your teen’s early years. If there were trying issues, they may just now be responding to that pain. Typically trauma at a young age does not manifest until the teen years because young children do not know how to respond. Most teenagers do not know how to respond any other way than acting out but they are more capable than their younger selves.
7. Knowing When And How To Act. After you have looked at underlying issues and early childhood trauma, you have to decide what level of intervention is necessary. Not every scenario needs professional treatment but the ones which do will not get better without it.
8. Compromise. Now is not the time for a full-on power struggle. Knowing how and when to compromise, will help you steer your teen’s recovery.
9. Rolling Eyes? Roll on! Dr. Phil says there is a direct relationship with how much you and your teens talk and the amount of trouble they get into. Talking to your teens is not a perfect guarantee but it does help.
10. Be A Kid Too. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in being a parent and doing the right thing that you forget to connect with your teen on their level and in their world. If you cannot remember the last time you and your teen had fun together it’s at least six months too long.

Dr phil re success:

https://www.thedoctorstv.com/articles/784-dr-phil-s-sweet-16-tips-for-success

 “Truth is ever to be found in the simplicity of things.”   Newton

“One joy dispels a hundred cares.”- Confucius

/character – have to live with self.   Sig.   fix

/   only so so –       https://www.google.com/search?q=lists+of+advice&rlz=1C1PQHB_enUS688US688&oq=lists+of+advice&aqs=chrome..69i57.9943j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 

/search  ‘best online schools’,  

`/most useful sites, most popular

     most useful sites – Search  – possible

/how to enter politics – heritage – couldn’t find that old one but

found – https://www.wikihow.com/Get-Started-in-Politics   skip it

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/paid advice sites = 0

/psychocybernetics

/shark tank lessons                       

/zip of old site

/ poor richard’s almanack

/soc and pro life

/skip idioms

/list of shark tank tips – 0

/warren buffet

/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_proverbial_phrases  but the 50 I have is enuff for now

/follow your loves – the things your are most interested in.

• job advice sites
• trip advice sites
• medical advice sites
• advice sites for teens
• advice for dating sites
• career advice sites
• paid advice sites to help women

/when to take ss  – under $

/most are living for others  –  is in job

/ best online schs  – from wsj –   for  hi sch, nursing, c –

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/giving up on peale.        guideposts has em but scattered

/brainy quotes – ads   ads

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/too complex – http://www.inspirational-quotes-and-quotations.com/ 

/too many sites are cluttered with ads, gimmicks, razzle dazzle, and take too long to get the point, don’t use outlines to make it easy for the viewer.  Emotion, cheap catchy words

/wk smart, how to enter pol,   

/paths, caps,    cats are on ga23 or is it p l0 on ga24, razzle,

/ don’t try to be humble; you’re not that great

/2 of 3        b. walters was told that

/dmv?   mot

/ins tips – 0

/ You’ll go through trouble mostly alone

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/what you dislike most in others – in you

/they dislike your car or shoes of something bout your friend = they don’t like you

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/people care about you, not your success

/the cardinal sin is ingratitude

/enjoy yourself =    YOUR type of humor

/fried

/Oscar wilde    – https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/oscar_wilde  – stuck ad

/https://www.brainyquote.com – good.  

/ http://www.notable-quotes.com/l/life_quotes.html  –  disappointing

• Napoleon Hill’s First Editions Book (Personal Development and Productivity)
• How to Stop Worrying and Start Living? (Happiness and Personal Development)
• The One Minute Manager (Relationship and Leadership)
• The Art of War for Women (Personal Development)
• How to Win Friends and Influence People (Relationship and Leadership)
• Tribes (Relationships and Leadership)
• The 4 Hour Work Week (Productivity)
• The Greatest Salesman in the World (Personal Development)
• The Automatic Millionaire (Money)
• Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle (Personal Development)
• Ready for Anything (Productivity)
• The Dip: Why Winners Do Quit? (Productivity)
• Think and Grow Rich (Personal Development)
• Who Moved My Cheese? (Happiness)
• The Secret (Happiness)
• 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Personal Development)

/ for kids but what is it? – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=infographics%20for%20kids&cbir=sbi&imageBin=&qs=AS&form=QBIRMH&sp=3&pq=infographics%20for%20&sk=IA1AS1&sc=8-17&cvid=1FFF79906619492783B21BBE8DFD8FFC 

/forcing selves to try to dance.

/infographics  – cg’s   is on aged? & rl.  

/ https://guidetolongtermcare.com/index.html  is on ga instead of my old one.  leave it thus.

/ Search  ’best doctors’, ‘best hospitals’ at    www.usnews.com/.  

/social:   you have a dull conversation with someone at a gathering and later see that person have a great time with others.

/people that make you feel alone  – sll5

/admit mistakes and areas of less talent  –  fic

/https://www.azquotes.com/author/15644-Oscar_Wilde

/see   blah so far?   https://www.bing.com/search?q=steve%20forbes%20guidelines&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=steve%20forbes%20guidelines&sc=0-23&sk=&cvid=88B534953260488E8F9328221E091981 

Fam mh:

/ 0 so far – https://www.bing.com/search?q=mental+health+test+for+families&qs=NWB&pq=mental+health+test+for+fam&sk=NWB1&sc=2-26&cvid=435C1661C1BF4899B7657A1CAE2E021E&FORM=QBRE&sp=2&ghc=1 

/see mental health assessment of fam…    skipping it for now

/ben Hogan:  it’s not the good shots; it’s how you manage the bad shots

/scroll down for tips – https://www.healthgrades.com/providers/laurie-valencic-yfsmm  

/coping with grief – checklists – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=coping+with+grief+checklist&FORM=HDRSC2   but  better might be:

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=%20grief%20checklists&qs=n&form=QBIR&sp=-1&pq=grief%20checklists&sc=1-16&sk=&cvid=DDBB4AA27AC44079A72AACC8D040020D

/search best advice I ever got

/once you accept yourself, others will accept you     fix

/eddie murphy said thru it all, you have to first be happy with yourself – meaning what

/s martin on Hollywood:  inner circles who get the jobs.  Outer circles of talent but rarely get the jobs

/get good primary dr, then ….

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/calculators for retirement, c,

/buying a used car – infographic – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=infographic+buying+a+used+car&form=HDRSC2&first=1&cw=1129&ch=534 

/ money saving tips infographic

/google what you are looking for.  also look for it under images’ by the topic   then infographics.   Some are updated, some not.  Some are amateurish.  search the net for the advice  …?  …you are looking for.   lst search for infographics of the

/animated maps for c,  hist

/how to ……. garner@comline.com .

/ https://jamesclear.com 

/ good news file – better on issues

/ https://www.theseniorlist.com/ 

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/if you feel inferior, they’ll pick it up and some will play.  If superior to others, they will pick it up and resent it.

/ 50 Timeless Chinese Proverbs Worth Memorizing (msn.com)

/ “The farther backward you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” •  Churchill

/ household tips – Bing images  –   sig?

/ household tips – Bing

/ https://www.thepetitionsite.com/browse-petitions/?z00m=31455103&redirectID=3132421062#hottest 

/Socrates:  Truth, Goodness and Usefulness.  –  socrates 3 filter test – Bing

/ eisenhower take your work seriously but not yourself – Bing 

/ good advice – Bing

/do anything to avoid trouble as justice sys …..   also to avoid the forgivers

/ Microsoft Word – Document1 (eisenhowerlibrary.gov)

/wisdom of the ages

/ all i really need to know i learned in kindergarten worksheets

/ How to Give Advice – Bing images

/dale Carnegie  – gxr thot he could have written the bk

/best diy bloggers on the net.  Let’s get crafty

/75 Inspiring Tony Robbins Quotes To Keep You Moving Forward

/inside groups – the book

/being a parent etc is hard enuff without feel-good evasion from clergy

/ armey’s axioms (bing.com)   save for  bks

/most sig guideline for life

/dog the bounty hunter’s advice – can’t find, needs wk

/go to reunion.   good for perspective – sig      ru? Can’t find it

 /ANSWERS   here locally put out by …..

/ inside groups – the book  – hard to tell

5 Ways That Buying a Car Has Drastically Changed

/ relax, be natural.  Then you won’t be dominated or dominating.  Won’t be indimidated and looking down on.  Fix

/adages

/We take our bearings, daily, from others. To be sane is, to a great extent, to be sociable.  John updike

/ kris jenner, how to negotiate (bing.com)    sig?

/   www.top10.com     all,   show all

/Eric hoffer

/poor richard’s almanack, religion

/see mot    / links, checklists, worksheets, infographics, guides,  guidelines

/ need algorithms and ai that pick out items, graphs, avoid dup ……….

/  list only in gen…..book of inside information      with note ‘confusing’?

/ advice clearinghouse – 0       emp, ratings, gen or misc  

/ self-help checklists.  = self-care = 21 Self Care Checklists to Take Care of Your Daily Needs – Happier Human = 0

/am characteristics?

/ David Kantor – Wikipedia

/recs, ratings, travel, life, success, pros, crime, jd?, love, people

/issues to have pix or not and ref to time….

/ skip  copywrite,  gen vs other,  counter, icons for forwarding, bruce lee .  first checklist is good

Incentive systems,  wellness programs, financial planner,

`/ Make It

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When blogs work add:  aging, issues

/ 10 Life Lessons From Warren Buffett Every Person in Their 70s Should Hear – not much

Cats   ================= = = =  no good without blogs up

l2/8/24   to  blog67 to sean

/recommended quote pages

/ Quotes and Famous Sayings – The Quotations Page     too hard

/checklists for mostly small kids –  https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=checklists+for+youth&FORM=HDRSC2

/ / Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” 

 “The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin,” 

/“25 Books That Have Shaped Readers’ Lives,” a list compiled as part of a nationwide reading-incentive program.

/good news

/cont   = , anomalies under iq [intellects?]   thinkers, media flaws?

/http://www.suntzustrategies.com   

 Moosemuss         Business (& military) principles

M – Mass – concentrate your strength against your competitor’s weak point.

O – The objective must be clear.

O – Offensive  – take it when the time is right – little is won by being passive.

S – Simplicity –  the strategy must be clear to all employees.

E – Economy – the fewest resources practicable.

M – Maneuver

U – Unity of command

S – Surprise

S – Security

/ /Rumsfeld’s Rules      Advice on government, business and life.    Trouble, too hard

/andy rooney’s advice  – maybe use this – Andy Rooney Quotes (Author of Common Nonsense)

/a-z quotes

/ warren buffett guidelines for his kids – Search

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`/why smart people fail    file under    success?

1. lack of social skills.  can’t take criticism, office politics, or be part of a team.  If people don’t like you, they’ll find ways to help you fail.
2. wrong fit.   
3. not committed.   
4. too scattered a focus.  
5. hidden barriers.  
6. bad luck.

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Trump’s principles:

list of main points of the art of the deal – Search    thus:

 11 Winning Negotiation Tactics From Donald Trump’s ‘The Art of the Deal’ 

list of main points of the art of the deal – Search

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advice links – Search

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